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Old 02-10-2018, 10:34 PM
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There's a very cute personal trainer at my gym and I've been attracted to him ever since I started going there, about a year. Aside from saying hi to me and smiling, he doesn't talk to me much. We even saw each other on the streets a few times and we were in the elevator together but it was awkward. I get really shy and closed off.

I never really thought anything could come out of it but for some reason, I have been thinking of him more lately. I also only go to that gym on the weekends so if I ever see him it's about 3-4x/month and he's usually training someone.

Not even trying to do this on purpose, but for the past few weeks, I've been doing the shy flirty thing where you look at them and smile and then look down and walk away. By now he probably senses I have a thing for him. I walked past him today when he was training someone and he fixed his eyes on me and gave me this very flirty smile. He probably has a gf but likes to flirt. The last time a personal trainer flirted with me like that, where he winked at me and glued his eyes to me, I found out he had a gf.

I've been trying to get the balls to go up to him and ask him out for a while but 1.) We never talk and 2.) he seems a little too rough for me. He swears a lot and he fights professionally and I'm a big softy and a theater nerd.

I already have a feeling it probably isn't going to work out but I haven't had a crush in a while and it feels kind of nice. I've also never asked a guy out before so I'd be up to do it. The thing is, when I'm by myself, I say things like this, yeah, I'll talk to him more next time, etc., but as soon as he pops up in front of my face (which has happened many times) I shut down and run away. I don't know how guys ask out girls all the time lol. Any advice from either gender? I mean, at worst, I could just simply never go to that gym again. It's only a weekend gym lol. Or maybe I should just go to a different gym on the weekends and forget him.
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