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Old 02-22-2018, 05:47 PM
 
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I have been seeing a man with serious jealousy and self esteem issues. After being accused of cheating so many times they started today because someone on Facebook waved at me. I have never even met this person!

So, I told them I was tired of their crap and they were too jealous and broke up. I changed my number and it felt like I started new. Almost like they don't exist to me now.

Has anyone ever done this?
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Old 02-22-2018, 06:04 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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I've recommended people use Google voice and similar. Makes it easy to dump the number without actually dumping your real number that friends and family know.

I personally use Burner app.

Can never be too safe. With that said, I haven't had the need to go through that measure to dissappear from someone. Sounds a bit stressful
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Old 02-22-2018, 06:05 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I have never changed my number because of one pissant.

Blocked them? Yes.
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Old 02-22-2018, 06:36 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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That's great, good for you! You don't need that!

I've personally never had to do it myself, but I would have done just that if I had to.
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Old 02-22-2018, 06:58 PM
 
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Well, one reason I did it is because when I blocked them I still got messages and they KNEW they would end up somewhere on my phone.

I really want the point to get across to them when they realize it's changed and they can't contact me...period.

I told them if they did not stop one day I would be gone forever. So this was it...mostly to punish them and move on for me. I mean, this guy has issues, he is a control freak. He has no control at all if he can't contact me. H can't even think he has any glimmer of control.
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Old 02-22-2018, 07:00 PM
 
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This guy is a cop. So... Idk why it matters but...maybe his badge went to his head idk.
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Old 02-22-2018, 08:07 PM
 
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Never understood the fascination with cops. Most I know of are complete a Holes.. and they don't even make an attempt to hide it.

Whatever.. something attracted you to this guy in the first place..It's a predictable cycle. Enjoy moving onto the next one.
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Old 02-22-2018, 08:13 PM
 
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I did it. It was an emotionally abusive and manipulative situation. It was my ex H. To my knowledge he does not know where I live or work. Nor can he contact me in any way. I even set any emails he sends me to bounce back to him as undeliverable. It isn’t a big deal, just change the number and voila, it is done. Easy.
I will not date cops or military anymore. It is one of the very few “on sight” dealbreakers for me.
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Old 02-22-2018, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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I have been seeing a man with serious jealousy and self esteem issues. After being accused of cheating so many times they started today because someone on Facebook waved at me. I have never even met this person!

So, I told them I was tired of their crap and they were too jealous and broke up. I changed my number and it felt like I started new. Almost like they don't exist to me now.

Has anyone ever done this?
Good for you. It may be a little extreme to some, but seeing how the guy is a cop, it was probably a good move.
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Old 02-22-2018, 09:41 PM
 
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I never dated a cop before. I smoke a lot of weed so...
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