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He is weird, I would not get involved. How many old relationships does your ex wife have? I would stay away all together.
Did you read the part, where the OP's wife said they were only friends, and then he disappeared from school altogether? There never was a relationship. The weirdo is making it up.
another thing I forgot to tell you, if in fact, you or your wife contact him, according to the law, that is an open invitation to him...don't do it...stay silent and record everything.
The police told me, even if I contacted him once, asking him to stop, that was considered according to the law, the wrong thing to do, as your opening a line of communication to someone you don't want in your life....so...if he calls you, hang up but log the calls. Block his number and log that, etc....
the man I was referring to, thought if a woman looked at him, she wanted him. There are a whole lot of distorted people out there, so please be careful.
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OP, you need to talk to police about this yourself, to inform yourself. Although to me, his last communication sounded like he was going to give up and go away, there's no way to know at this point, if he'll follow through. It can't hurt to talk to police.
OP--I've read along but not commented previously. Some one gave you a great suggestion about spending a few bucks to see what it out there about your address. You shouldn't assume that because the house is in the name of a trust he can't find it.
I can still go online and find rental addresses I lived at 30 years ago. If you receive any kind of credit card bills, subscriptions, etc. at your house, don't assume that information is not public. Companies sell those addresses to other companies. It can and does work it's way into the public domain.
Have you asked yourself how he found out your name? How did he find out who you are if your wife hasn't been in contact with him for over a decade? I'm not implying anything by that question--just pointing out that your home address is not as private as you seem to think. I don't mean to sound creepy, but if someone gave me some basic information about a person (name, approximate age) I could probably find out where they lived in an afternoon of online searching. At the very least I could narrow it down to one or two people.
Since he's emailed twice it's time to call the non-emergency police number and make them aware of what has happened.
OP--I've read along but not commented previously. Some one gave you a great suggestion about spending a few bucks to see what it out there about your address. You shouldn't assume that because the house is in the name of a trust he can't find it.
I can still go online and find rental addresses I lived at 30 years ago. If you receive any kind of credit card bills, subscriptions, etc. at your house, don't assume that information is not public. Companies sell those addresses to other companies. It can and does work it's way into the public domain.
Have you asked yourself how he found out your name? How did he find out who you are if your wife hasn't been in contact with him for over a decade? I'm not implying anything by that question--just pointing out that your home address is not as private as you seem to think.
Since he's emailed twice it's time to call the non-emergency police number and make them aware of what has happened.
Yeah I plan to file a non-criminal report with the police.
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