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Multiple emails from different women discussing meeting locations and the amount for their"donations".
Don't buy it.
Most are smart enough not to email locations and donations....
But if so... Husband and prostitute are incredibly stupid. Many don't even accept text messages because it leaves trail that can be retrieved later.
I can send fake emails to any arbitrary account as well.... SMTP is extremely open in design with literally no security.
Also, you have no idea if he followed through.
Either way.... the first step has already been mentioned. Decide if the marriage is worth saving and follow through with either a move to divorce or a move to confront. There is no excuse for infidelity, however, many get to this point when the marriage has already failed or failing.
I know moms want to protect their children but prostitutes are different than an affair with one woman....
One is physical sex as a business transaction no more no less.
The other is a physical and emotional attachment feelings to another.
I'd rather it be the former than the later. Either way, if its not acceptable it simply isn't.... and it should be dealt with accordingly.
A family across the way divorced (not sure of the circumstances). The mother was actively keeping the father away out of anger. The children didn't blame him for not being around but blamed her for keeping their father away. Not sure if this is common... I do know the relationship between children and father was fairly strong.
Last night I was browsing the internet on my husbands iPad, and I discovered that he has been visiting prostitutes for the past 2 months at least. I feel so numb and lost, because I have given this man 15 years of my life.
As awful as that is, you know more now, can see him clearer, and are smarter about the big picture. Try to at least see the value and benefit to that. I'm sure you wouldn't want to remain in the dark about him.
Try to not look back, at the time you've given him. This is now about the future. Best wishes for a better and cleaner future going forward, hopefully free of him and his junk. Hang in there.
On the bright side real life is not like that Julia Roberts / Richard Gere hooker and John fall in love movie. Guys do not and would not start dating escorts and marry them.
On the bright side real life is not like that Julia Roberts / Richard Gere hooker and John fall in love movie. Guys do not and would not start dating escorts and marry them.
Hold on though. He may not have actually met up with a prostitute. Just because you have messages, it doesn't necessarily mean anything.
Are you sure he went through with it?
A lot of guys have thought about or have been tempted, but that doesn't mean that they go through with it.
Uhm. Still a douche even if he didn't meet up with them.
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