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Could it be something about you? Some women who are obese and otherwise disgusting see no problems with themselves. Some men are not turned on by the prospect of rolling over on top of a mountain of meat.
In this case, shouldn't a man probably NOT choose a mountain of flabby disgusting meat to be his girlfriend, and to have sex with?
Because it's all about your needs and wants, of course!
As a woman I can say that I like my man to have an orgasm not because it's my personal need, but because I want him to be happy and it's a turnon to see him turned on.
From what I understand the opposite is often very true too - men want women to be satisfied and it turns men on to see their women turned on.
I think that's a natural desire...to have your mate satisfied, not aggravated and just grinding through.
And maybe you need to learn to not be so judgmental and even angry towards an unknown guy. Nobody here knows these people; nobody here knows the actual personal/social dynamic which exists between these two people, yet many on here are playing armchair psychologist and diagnosing this guy with a variety of ailments. All these Dr. Laura's and Dear Abby's appearing out of the woodwork to shame, diagnose, and berate this guy! LOL..And of course, the usual gender battle erupts whenever there is a male-female issue or problem being discussed. Gotta stick with your team and try to outdo or bash the other side.
Huh? I answered the only information we have on this thread.
I suppose I could have made a bunch of ish up but whom would that have helped?
As for anger, well...hasthag irony. Relax. They're done with one another. They broke up. Whatever the issue is, he's addressing it on his own or has found a non-"disgusting" slab of "meat" (who's angry again? And defensive?) to jump on, and she is off to find someone more to her liking as well. It didn't work out, and they've gone their separate ways which I think most of us predicted from the get-go.
I keep thinking of this one song on my DH's 70s playlist (he has all genres)...Baby I'm-a Want You...because we always sing it at eachother, "I just can't live without your lovin' and affection/Givin' me direction" except we never say "direction."
I keep thinking of this one song on my DH's 70s playlist (he has all genres)...Baby I'm-a Want You...because we always sing it at eachother, "I just can't live without your lovin' and affection/Givin' me direction" except we never say "direction."
Uh oh, I do the same thing when I hear that song. But it does actually make more sense with the 'erection' in it. Just a bit unexpected from a less-than-edgy group like Bread.
I've been lucky, over the years, to find some extremely skillful operators who could unfailingly get me erect even if I was dead tired or sick as a dog. Uncannily, they knew the exact buttons to press, each and every time. Without that I would have had a problem getting erect on my own!
As a woman I can say that I like my man to have an orgasm not because it's my personal need, but because I want him to be happy and it's a turnon to see him turned on.
From what I understand the opposite is often very true too - men want women to be satisfied and it turns men on to see their women turned on.
I think that's a natural desire...to have your mate satisfied, not aggravated and just grinding through.
Oh yes, absolutely. That's the best part. And it is such a turn on!
It sounds like the issues are more with his attitude, than physical. With modern pharmaceuticals there is no reason most men should have a problem in this area.
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