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Old 05-17-2018, 09:41 PM
 
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If a thread posted by a younger man complaining that his post menopausal partner wasn’t getting wet and he was sick of it.... I wonder how that would go down?
Try it. I can almost guarantee it's her problem to deal with though, at least in my opinion.

I know some guys here like to pretend there's gender inequality in responses to their posts, but really, show some examples please --and then we'll discuss reality.
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Old 05-17-2018, 10:02 PM
 
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If a thread posted by a younger man complaining that his post menopausal partner wasn’t getting wet and he was sick of it.... I wonder how that would go down?
You already know: Mod's would be editing posts and issuing infractions left-and-right.
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Old 05-17-2018, 10:08 PM
 
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If a thread posted by a younger man complaining that his post menopausal partner wasn’t getting wet and he was sick of it.... I wonder how that would go down?
I guarantee it would begin with people, especially women, saying the first thing for the woman to do would be to see a doctor. There would be anecdotes involving HRT and the like.

It would START with what the woman should medically do about it. Right out of the gate. There would also be, er, mechanical recommendations. So to speak. And romantic and lifestyle recommendations. On how they could both FACE what was going on. Not on how she could yell at him that it was his fault for making a sound or maybe he just was too ugly, and she needn't address things at all and with a hot man her dryness would definitely disappear, etc.

So there you have it. Of course defensiveness would read its head at some point just as it has here, in spades. I fail to see the point you're trying to make here.
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Old 05-17-2018, 10:15 PM
 
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You already know: Mod's would be editing posts and issuing infractions left-and-right.
Oh please, we get comments on how nobody loves old or "obese" (including from obese guys) or ugly (yep, literally) women on here all the time, those posts stay. This is in your head.
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Old 05-17-2018, 10:17 PM
 
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Oh please, we get comments on how nobody loves old or "obese" (including from obese guys) or ugly (yep, literally) women on here all the time, those posts stay. This is in your head.
Constant ED jokes/puns aren't in my head; they're in this thread. I am certain an equivalent set of gender-reversed puns/jokes about a medical condition wouldn't be tolerated -- nor should they be.
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Old 05-17-2018, 10:28 PM
 
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I guarantee it would begin with people, especially women, saying the first thing for the woman to do would be to see a doctor. There would be anecdotes involving HRT and the like.

It would START with what the woman should medically do about it. Right out of the gate. There would also be, er, mechanical recommendations. So to speak. And romantic and lifestyle recommendations. On how they could both FACE what was going on. Not on how she could yell at him that it was his fault for making a sound or maybe he just was too ugly, and she needn't address things at all and with a hot man her dryness would definitely disappear, etc.

So there you have it. Of course defensiveness would read its head at some point just as it has here, in spades. I fail to see the point you're trying to make here.


"It's the man's fault it's the man's fault...its always the man's fault". And then 100 women would chime in posting "yes!! Men's fault men's fault always", and then he could post : "point proven."

Only... that's really lame, and not going to happen. It's' not us vs them, it"s who needs help with their problem, its usually the one who has weird perspectives of what women think, and decide they're the enemy.
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Old 05-18-2018, 12:05 AM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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It's' not us vs them, it"s who needs help with their problem, its usually the one who has weird perspectives of what women think, and decide they're the enemy.
No, it's not us vs them. Men and women love each other (mostly).

I've never felt that women are bashing my gender (I mostly get the impression women like my gender - apart from the gay lady I work with and I know the reason why).

This thread is fun. At some other poor dudes expense though.
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Old 05-18-2018, 05:47 AM
 
Location: Elsewhere
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No, it's not us vs them. Men and women love each other (mostly).

I've never felt that women are bashing my gender (I mostly get the impression women like my gender - apart from the gay lady I work with and I know the reason why).

This thread is fun. At some other poor dudes expense though.
Yes, some poor dude has no idea that his lost erection is the subject of a 35-page thread on an Internet forum!
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Old 05-18-2018, 08:11 AM
 
Location: In the bee-loud glade
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Yes, some poor dude has no idea that his lost erection is the subject of a 35-page thread on an Internet forum!
Well, one could interpret this thread as a sometimes insensitive discussion of an issue that has or will affect every man at some point in his life, and based on that interpretation they might refrain from risking offending people. I don't think that interpretation is happening, but I don't think it's too much to ask
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Old 05-18-2018, 08:15 AM
 
Location: San Diego
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I thought the erection was over.
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