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This is a common problem I see with sooo many guys in the game of dating and love.
Truly, it is not rocket science in figuring out if someone genuinely likes you or not.
If you have to ask people on a forum about whether the person you are interested in likes you or not, the battle is already long lost.
If someone likes you, you WILL know. They will be the ones constantly texting you and wanting to know what you are up, if you want to go out on a date, etc. If someone doesn't return your texts promptly the first time, then let it go. Continuing to text and try to contact someone that has no interest in you, isn't going to make them like you more. Save your self respect and energy and use it towards finding someone better.
If you have to ask people on a forum about whether the person you are interested in likes you or not, the battle is already long lost.
If someone likes you, you WILL know. They will be the ones constantly texting you and wanting to know what you are up, if you want to go out on a date, etc. If someone doesn't return your texts promptly the first time, then let it go.
Agreed. That sounds so simple, doesn't it? If you're wondering whether or not someone likes you, wonder whether or not you really like feeling that way.
Let's see, she invites you to her place, but YOU put HER off.
She says she's available on such and such day, but YOU were unavailable.
Honestly, I think both of you are having timing issues. I could see how SHE'S wondering if you're playing with her. I mean, she DIRECTLY let you know she was available, and both times YOU closed her down.
I'm not saying you did it to be mean, you have to go to work, and presumably the second time was for a good reason too...but try putting yourself in HER shoes, and maybe she's wondering what YOUR game is.
I was thinking the exact same thing. If she wasn't interested, there was no reason for her to give out a phone number and invite the OP over to her place. Dude, SHE INVITED YOU TO HER PLACE. Was she not worth a few hours less sleep for one night? I understand that you have to work, but you were off from work at some point that day. Lesson learned son; next time a girl says "come to my place" my dude; SHOW UP!
Pay close attention to when her silence started...
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She responded well and indirectly invited me over that night.
Of course I was at work. :l
After I explained that, she didn't respond and I assumed she had fallen asleep because it was late anyway.
Right there, you were supposed to say "I'm working now, but I can be there right after work". The girl might have left the door unlocked for you....LOL
I wondered if he sent her a more...intimate....picture when he said "heat things up sexually to see how she responds".
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No, but she did though. Which adds to the confusion.
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