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Seriously? Why she would keep pics of her ex? Maybe she's still in love and those pictures mean something for her! I don't get that and everybody I know don't have pictures of ex on social media! This doesn't make any sense to me!
Past is past.. yes. However, it isn't something that just disappears with the delete button.
The person you have fallen for is who she is today because in part of that past. You either accept it all or walk.
You are so naive. Of course those pictures are a red flag! Of course her pictures getting attention of other guys comments her social media last year is a red flag! I'm tired of relationships, I think women these are too feminists and guys are too betas. I don't know, something is wrong!
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Originally Posted by joshuason77
You are so naive. Of course those pictures are a red flag! Of course her pictures getting attention of other guys comments her social media last year is a red flag! I'm tired of relationships, I think women these are too feminists and guys are too betas. I don't know, something is wrong!
You are pissed off because you probably feel threatened by her ex. Right?
But you have to understand that, as adults who have had relationships before, you're gonna meet people who have exes, and they are allowed to remember those exes without it being a threat to you.
If your GF isn't making it threatening or flirting with him or talking about him or making him any part of your relationship, then this is YOUR problem.
You can't make her delete her past. Just because you erase your memories doesn't mean other people like to live that way.
You need to leave this girl alone and get some help. Your self-esteem is much too fragile for you to be involved with anyone.
I'm trying to schedule a therapist but as I don't have time because I work, the therapist said she will try to find a time for me and will call me back.
I'm trying to schedule a therapist but as I don't have time because I work, the therapist said she will try to find a time for me and will call me back.
Therapists often have lunchtime and after work/school hours.
In the meantime, please try to forget about this young woman, for her sake.
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