Are certain men not capable of taking no for an answer?

[Electrician4you]

Originally Posted by santafe400

I've heard stories of men who simply wouldn't take a polite no for an answer when asking a women out. In fact, I've heard tales of women that have been followed home, stalked, insulted, and even assaulted just because she was not feeling a certain dude or he simply refused to take a hint. I have one female friend who turned down a guy, and started to receive threatening texts and emails on an almost daily basis. Have any of you ever experienced this?

I haven’t but I’m a guy. I do know of women friends that have been harassed by men who are a bit obsessed.
To me it’s simple. When I was single if I ask her out and she’s not interested I’m good. Plenty of women out there.

But yes there are bat crap crazy dudes who can’t take no for a answer. Too bad women aren’t allowed to emphasize no with a quick taser zap to the nut sack along with No I don’t want to. Or a long steady purposeful zap for the guys who like to come back for seconds. Because by the third time he’s just into the pain experience of the whole thing. He may be dateable material by then.

[TJenkins602]

Originally Posted by Electrician4you

I haven’t but I’m a guy. I do know of women friends that have been harassed by men who are a bit obsessed.
To me it’s simple. When I was single if I ask her out and she’s not interested I’m good. Plenty of women out there.

But yes there are bat crap crazy dudes who can’t take no for a answer. Too bad women aren’t allowed to emphasize no with a quick taser zap to the nut sack along with No I don’t want to. Or a long steady purposeful zap for the guys who like to come back for seconds. Because by the third time he’s just into the pain experience of the whole thing. He may be dateable material by then.

I know that both genders are capable of such stupidity.

I most commonly see it from men. They get a no and then they try to push it (but that is only my experience). I'm sure guys have gone through similar things with women. In fact, I have a friend that had to put up with that from a woman.

[RbccL]

Originally Posted by Electrician4you

I haven’t but I’m a guy. I do know of women friends that have been harassed by men who are a bit obsessed.
To me it’s simple. When I was single if I ask her out and she’s not interested I’m good. Plenty of women out there.

But yes there are bat crap crazy dudes who can’t take no for a answer. Too bad women aren’t allowed to emphasize no with a quick taser zap to the nut sack along with No I don’t want to. Or a long steady purposeful zap for the guys who like to come back for seconds. Because by the third time he’s just into the pain experience of the whole thing. He may be dateable material by then.

Hahahaha N ut S ack taser. Thank you.

[Rocko20]

Originally Posted by usayit

Neither are brothels and prostitutes. I say this as a fairly active supporter of legalized prostitution and one who has been in and about that profession for several decades. I"m not denying that there are men that are desperate for sex... but there are also those men desperate for relationships. The later are the ones that are unable to take no for an answer from women they approach. I don't think that would change even with legalized outlet for paid sex.

For those men that are desperate for sex, I do agree with you. Pornography and masturbation isn't a satisfactory solution for many men with strong sex drives. But I don't think this is directly related to the topic of this thread.

The topic of the thread is why some men don't take no for an answer. It's very clear these men, who don't accept no, are desperate for both sex and companionship. Legalized prostitution does not solve the lack of companionship issue but it atleast provided an avenue where they can release their sexual frustration temporarily with a sex worker instead of sending dick picks on instgram and harasing their coworker .

The solution is pretty simple. All these desperate men, who can't get laid or find a women, need to get a passport and start traveling to other countries where the odds of finding a woman increase exponentially. Ofcourse this involves money, effort, and an open mind so sadly many men don't fit the criteria.

Originally Posted by JerZ

What do YOU want, for women to put out because otherwise you may have to masturbate?

How about you develop an actual relationship?

I am still not seeing why this means men need even MORE outlets than ever before (in history). Are these IG women forcing you to follow their feeds?

I'm engaged, thanks for asking what I want. I'm simply pointing out that some women send mixed signals.

Men need more outlets? There are no outlets. Men need A outlet, preferably one that doesn't lead to jail time.

Originally Posted by tamajane

You don't have to be doing that to get those pics. You can place the most innocent ad with a normal photo to meet a nice guy and you get a bunch of those d-pics. Sexy Instagram photos also are not an invitation for that kind of thing.

I agree, so legalize prostitute and nation wide brothels so desperate men sending d-pics, can go release their frustrations on mutual sex workers. As it is now, the amount of desperate men harassing women in America is very alarming. (see the #metoo movment )

Originally Posted by tamajane

I would say there is a much higher level of entitlement and anger now among men than I have ever seen. Women go for the best looking men.... stop the presses... When was that ever not common knowledge.

I would say that more women are gaining weight which makes them unattractive, so the ones who aren't, are unfortunately burdened with constant harassment by desperate men.

Men want attractive women, stop the presses, when was that ever not common knowledge. The point is how society gets these desperate men to leave innocent women a lone. Clearly the #me too movement showed us that even rich/powerful men are capable of harassment toward women who refuse them.