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I hope you let this woman (she's not a girl) go, so she can find other men to sleep with and fall in love with. You will be doing her a great favor and she will have some fun and be on her way to living a fuller life!
I hope you let this woman (she's not a girl) go, so she can find other men to sleep with and fall in love with. You will be doing her a great favor and she will have some fun and be on her way to living a fuller life!
I hope you let this woman (she's not a girl) go, so she can find other men to sleep with and fall in love with. You will be doing her a great favor and she will have some fun and be on her way to living a fuller life!
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I think people are being hard on the OP. If you lose attraction, you lose attraction. Better for them both that OP doesn’t try to force something that ain’t there anymore. Hey dating is shallow and savage at times.
I think people are being hard on the OP. If you lose attraction, you lose attraction. Better for them both that OP doesn’t try to force something that ain’t there anymore. Hey dating is shallow and savage at times.
I agree, in the case of dating. But when you have come to the place where you say you are in love and in a committed relationship, you don't "lose attraction." Because you are deeply connected to the whole person and no longer view them as a set of physical attributes.
That's why we are telling the OP he was never truly in love with her, and he should admit that to himself and let her go.
We don't know this. We don't know anything about the circumstances of their sleeping together.
BirdieBelle;
Look, from my own perspective/persuasion, and a read between the lines, I see there is a high likelihood that OP did exactly as I described . That is all I'm saying.
No need to use the hand palm emoticon on old Picklejuice. It's nothing personal, and based solely on observation, perspective, gender experience, modern times.
Predators abound, do they not? And the most cunning slyest dog types start off their "hunt" behaving like innocent lambs. I surmise OP is one of those. I could be wrong, but I'd bet I'm right.
The reality? None of us know for sure-- only what the OP's own written confession suggests.
I agree, in the case of dating. But when you have come to the place where you say you are in love and in a committed relationship, you don't "lose attraction." Because you are deeply connected to the whole person and no longer view them as a set of physical attributes.
That's why we are telling the OP he was never truly in love with her, and he should admit that to himself and let her go.
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It's nothing personal, and based solely on observation, perspective, gender experience, modern times.
