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Old 03-22-2018, 04:53 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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Say sayonara, he's done.
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Old 03-22-2018, 04:57 PM
 
Location: Coastal Mid-Atlantic
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Tired, is that the new word being used now. Used to be, I think we need a break, or I'll be going out of town for a while, or I think we should see other people. What he really means is, Bi#&h Im outa here! I mean that in a nice way.
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Old 03-22-2018, 08:03 PM
 
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Amazing, in this age when we are transported from place to place effortlessly, manual labor is done by machines, our entertainment is piped into our living rooms, and you can get a date by swiping right, that people are soooooo "tired."
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Old 03-22-2018, 08:42 PM
 
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Old 03-23-2018, 06:39 AM
 
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He's tired of the non-relationship. Who could blame him. A relationship means seeing someone, dating someone, spending time with them, developing the connection. Theres none of that here. Its a waste of time, and he knows it.
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Old 03-23-2018, 07:18 AM
 
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What he's really saying is that he is tired of this particular relationship.
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Old 03-23-2018, 07:35 AM
 
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Hello,

I am seeking opinions and ideas here. Let's say a man loves a woman and is in a long distance with her for almost two years, of course they had many setbacks and had a hard time figuring out a way to eventually be together, but in general it was a good connection. Eventually the man says he can't continue because he feels "tired." Tired and bored of everything in his life. He decides to end the relationship after one final setback. He wishes you a good life and says I love you but I can't be with you and we stay friends. Just the day before this final setback in plans to be together he was very happy and optimistic.

When men mean tired, does that mean he is done or does it mean he needs space and eventually will come around. Is it normal for a man to go through a stage like this especially in a long distance relationship and return or does it usually mean they are done? Its been one month exactly since he has initiated talking.

Sincerely
Miss Pineapple
It means the emotional cost of being involved in the relationship is greater than the benefit. This could be due to the distance or frankly he could be having a bout of depression and just feels this way about everything. I’d wish him well and be on your way.
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Old 03-23-2018, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Saint John, IN
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He's trying to be nice, but it means he's done with you! Sorry, but time to move on.
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Old 03-23-2018, 07:10 PM
 
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It means he is not interested.
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Old 03-27-2018, 04:17 PM
 
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If he's tired, let him be tired right by his tired self.
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