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Old 03-10-2016, 06:22 PM
 
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I do have body hair. on my chest, back and shoulders. i hate it. i use to shave it but stopped because it just got tiring to do and it itched

i usually have sex wiht my shirt on unless the girl forcefully takes it off. some girls have said "wow your so hairy"

they dont seem to be disgusted though

but is it a turn off?

how can i be more confident about it?

Mod note, Mar 25, 2018: A second thread on this topic, stated today, has been merged into this thread. (The new portion of the thread starts at post #108.)

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Old 03-10-2016, 06:29 PM
 
Location: NYC
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For many it could be Gross if it's like a forest
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Old 03-10-2016, 06:31 PM
 
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Different people (women and men) like different things. What might be too hairy to me might not be to another woman.

Please note: This concept is the same for height, weight, skin color, income, smoking habits, manner of dress, etc., etc., etc. It is exactly why they make ice cream, cars and clothes (for example) in so many varieties.

Further there is no way for us to tell you, because we don't know you or what you look like.
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Old 03-10-2016, 06:34 PM
 
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mines not overbearing
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Old 03-10-2016, 06:40 PM
 
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Eh....hairiness should not be a make or break thing. My first guy didn't have a lot of hair so I assumed that was what I liked...but I found out I didn't really have a "type" with regard to hair. My SO now is Indian - so the total opposite with LOTS of hair EVERYWHERE - ha! Out of everything in a relationship, that's such a minor thing. If someone only wants a hookup then you're gonna go for exactly what you like physically, I guess.
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Old 03-10-2016, 06:40 PM
 
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Honestly I'm not crazy about back hair but if the guy were wonderful, I'd overlook it. I mean what can ya do? Electrolysis is expensive and it must be pretty hard to shave back there.

Other than that, I expect my guy to be somewhat hairy. Guys are hairy and that's the way it is. Some more than others, but yep. Hairy.
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Old 03-10-2016, 06:42 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Eh....hairiness should not be a make or break thing. My first guy didn't have a lot of hair so I assumed that was what I liked...but I found out I didn't really have a "type" with regard to hair. My SO now is Indian - so the total opposite with LOTS of hair EVERYWHERE - ha! Out of everything in a relationship, that's such a minor thing. If someone only wants a hookup then you're gonna go for exactly what you like physically, I guess.
My friend is that way. Her boyfriend is hairy, which she says she could do without. However, she says she loves him to death, and wouldn't trade him for anything or anybody.

Personally, I think some hair is attractive. But then again, I think all adults look better with a bit of body hair on them.
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Old 03-10-2016, 06:48 PM
 
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i use to shav eit but it just got tiring. i could shav emy shoulders and upper arms but it really is time consuming to get it perfectly
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Old 03-10-2016, 06:48 PM
 
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Body hair makes you look tough.
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Old 03-10-2016, 07:00 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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It depends on the woman. I hardly have any body hair and women have complemented me on that if we get to a point of where I am shirtless in their presence. Women who like me probably prefer younger-looking guys, so that likely has something to do with it.
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