44 and ready for some women in my life (dating, girlfriend, Asian)
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I just turned 44 and I'm ready to join the mainstream world of dating and sex. It's really embarrassing to say but, I've led an abstinent life. There was one legit girlfriend I had (a beautiful petite redhead), and then there were just a few prostitutes. Heck, when I was 19 my older brother took me to a "massage parler" where I got deflowered by an Asian lady. Then there were a couple times in Tijuana when I partook in the local offerings. But what f's with my psyche, is the last laye I had was when Craigslist still had an escort section!!
I'm not ugly or anything. A few women have told me that I was very attractive. I'm 5'9, 190 something. But everything is small on me. I have small hands, feet, wrists, ankles, even my head is small. I wear an 8.5 shoe so I have to buy my socks in the boys section. One thing nice though, I can easily pass for early 30's, recently a customer at work thought I was in my late 20's.
So there's my resume for you. So obviously I have some catching up to do in the skills department. I need a woman who can kind of give me a "crash course" if you will. Look, my sexual experience has been far and few between, when I get my next girl, I very possibly might look like I don't know what the hell I'm doing! Like I'm kind of figuring out things as I go you know? I need a lady who can sort of help "facilitate" the experience. You know just keep things going smooth and easy. That's when a little THC concentrate can calm the nerves.
And then it hit me...a pornstar is who I'd be compatible with.
I've been watching these interviews of pornstars, and they seem to have a good head on their shoulders. The common theme I hear, is that the sex they engage in on the set is just work, the sex is "mechanical", and that it's just a job like anything else. That's hardcore isn't it! To engage in such an intimate act with somebody you've never met, and then hit happy hour with the girls like it's just another day at the office. Hardcore, yet something very arousing about it, I can't quite figure out why.
So in these interviews, these women talk about their life before porn. They had a high sex drive from the beginning and some have racked up 50 guys before they even got in front of a camera. So when you take that into account plus their career, that's a whole lot of men they've been with. Now if these women have been with that many dudes (in the hundreds), they're intuitively going to know how a man's body works better than anyone else possibly could. They're going to know how a man responds to touch, what makes his heart rate go up, and what calms him.
So anyway, good times ahead. I've been hitting the gym, I've got to get some decent clothes, get my teeth cleaned and whitened.
If you all have any advice or just want to chat, feel free! Just don't rag on me please, I know I'm a little [bleep]up. I did alot of HARD drugs throughot my 20's and 30's. I might have screwed up the brain wiring.
Last edited by PJSaturn; 04-21-2018 at 08:26 AM..
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How do you support yourself? You haven't mentioned anything about earning a living. Are you employable?
Well right now I'm just driving a shuttle van, taking people to the airport and back. But I'm working on getting a Cisco networking certificate (CCNA). I have class tonight. I should be studying right now, but honestly I'm more excited about Tinder than I am "subnet masks".
Well right now I'm just driving a shuttle van, taking people to the airport and back. But I'm working on getting a Cisco networking certificate (CCNA). I have class tonight.
LOL crazy, I just visited Phoenix and rode one of those vans twice while there. It would be a small world thing indeed if you were one of the drivers, man!
I had a suggestion, but decided to PM ya. Whatever way things go, I hope they go well and happily for you.
LOL crazy, I just visited Phoenix and rode one of those vans twice while there. It would be a small world thing indeed if you were one of the drivers, man!
I had a suggestion, but decided to PM ya. Whatever way things go, I hope they go well and happily for you.
LOL, did your driver nod off at the wheel and drift into the next lane? If so that might have been me driving you. Thanks for the PM, I'll get back to you on that one.
It's too late. Trying to get sex at your age for the first time will be disastrous. She's gonna know you're a virgin. That's gonna be humiliating. I'd advise celibacy the rest of the way. You've made it this far.
It's too late. Trying to get sex at your age for the first time will be disastrous. She's gonna know you're a virgin. That's gonna be humiliating. I'd advise celibacy the rest of the way. You've made it this far.
What OP are you referring to? Certainly not this one since the OP is not a virgin and not celibate lol
It's too late. Trying to get sex at your age for the first time will be disastrous. She's gonna know you're a virgin. That's gonna be humiliating. I'd advise celibacy the rest of the way. You've made it this far.
OP isn't a virgin. A masseuse "deflowered" him...plus...he's "had" a few prostitutes.
Wisely, lacking experience with a woman who wasn't paid to do the honors, he is currently seeking a porn star. Good luck, OP, and much happiness to you, and I do mean that...everyone deserves to wind up happy. I hope you find what you're looking for.
It's too late. Trying to get sex at your age for the first time will be disastrous. She's gonna know you're a virgin. That's gonna be humiliating. I'd advise celibacy the rest of the way. You've made it this far.
Did you even read the OP? It doesn't sound like it.
Maybe you should focus less on dating a porn star that could please you and learn how to please an average woman. Let's be realistic, unless you want to keep paying for sex you're most likely not going to sleep with a porn star.
If you're a decent looking man with a good personality you should be able to meet some woman that would eventually be interested in sleeping with you.
I generally don't condone lying but most women won't want to sleep with a man that's had sex with prostitutes so I might keep that little nugget to yourself.
Sex is fun and natural, it's not rocket science, you'll figure it out. Good luck!
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