Sex Ultimatum? Perimenopause? (guys, definition, serious, honest)
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She is very anxious and nervous about skipped periods. She said she cannot focus on sex if she didn't get her period. She said "no period no sex." She is nervous, I get it, fine, let's wait for her period.
Then I thought... she may be experiencing perimenopause. What if she doesn't get a period for 6 months? She said, then no sex for 6 months.
If I knew she had such a ridiculously low sex drive, I would not have dated her. We are aged 40. Did she issue a sex ultimatum?
Original poster there are only two type's of 100% safe sexual activities.
1. Cunningham sex and Lisa sex my bad Lisa sorry I meant fellatinos.... from the Roman root word....
(2) And oh oh oh forget about it...
If this is not the solution , I don't know what is!!!
Last edited by Howest2008; 05-15-2018 at 02:56 PM..
She is very anxious and nervous about skipped periods. She said she cannot focus on sex if she didn't get her period. She said "no period no sex." She is nervous, I get it, fine, let's wait for her period.
Then I thought... she may be experiencing perimenopause. What if she doesn't get a period for 6 months? She said, then no sex for 6 months.
If I knew she had such a ridiculously low sex drive, I would not have dated her. We are aged 40. Did she issue a sex ultimatum?
This woman can easlity go to a clinic or just take a pregnancy test to see if she's pregnant or not.Why would she tell you that you might have to wait 6 months?It sounds to me that she's just avoiding having sex with you.She needs to go to a DR to get herself checked out.The fact that she isn't thinking on her own to do this...something wrong with this person.
This woman can easlity go to a clinic or just take a pregnancy test to see if she's pregnant or not.Why would she tell you that you might have to wait 6 months?It sounds to me that she's just avoiding having sex with you.She needs to go to a DR to get herself checked out.The fact that she isn't thinking on her own to do this...something wrong with this person.
Either that or she thinks the OP is incredibly stupid and won’t find it crazy that she’d suggest waiting almost 8 months to find out if she is pregnant and possibly put their baby at risk by not providing appropriate prenatal care. Then again, she already seems to have some loopy ideas, so I wouldn’t put it past her to think that she doesn’t need prenatal care at all or that pregnant women can’t have sex.
Either that or she thinks the OP is incredibly stupid and won’t find it crazy that she’d suggest waiting almost 8 months to find out if she is pregnant and possibly put their baby at risk by not providing appropriate prenatal care. Then again, she already seems to have some loopy ideas, so I wouldn’t put it past her to think that she doesn’t need prenatal care at all or that pregnant women can’t have sex.
Maybe I didn't provide an important detail.
She wants her period because she does not want to lactate anymore.
This is not about pregnancy
That is uncalled for. Condom + Withdraw is within my parameters of acceptable risk.
If she is not comfortable with those parameters, she should tell me, but she never did.
If she wants 100%, she should have told me, but I'm sure if she told every man that, they would run.
When driving, is there a 100% chance you won't die from a car accident?
No, it is an acceptable risk.
Dude. Is that even sex? In your place, I would not bother. I can do better DIY.
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Dude. Is that even sex? In your place, I would not bother. I can do better DIY.
What? Of course it is.
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