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Old 05-13-2018, 05:38 PM
 
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Well, now you know.

I think you need to exit this relationship this weekend. Hopefully you haven't met the 4-year-old yet.
All the kids met everyone already. Both our eldest kids want us to move in together. We even talked about this possibility.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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All the kids met everyone already. Both our eldest kids want us to move in together. We even talked about this possibility.
That is NOT good parenting. That actually is very bad parenting.

Your children should NOT be an active part of your dating life.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:38 PM
 
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What an odd thread. Planned parenthood should be fully funded as proved by this thread alone.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:39 PM
 
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Even Ivory soap is only 99 and 44/100% pure.
I know.

The REST of that stuff'll just kill you.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:40 PM
 
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All the kids met everyone already. Both our eldest kids want us to move in together. We even talked about this possibility.
Well, you may have to, considering there's a little fingernail on the way.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Well, you may have to, considering there's a little fingernail on the way.
I was thinking that but praying it wasn't true.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:45 PM
 
Location: Wisconsin
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She is very anxious and nervous about skipped periods. She said she cannot focus on sex if she didn't get her period. She said "no period no sex." She is nervous, I get it, fine, let's wait for her period.

Then I thought... she may be experiencing perimenopause. What if she doesn't get a period for 6 months? She said, then no sex for 6 months.
And, what if it IS menopause? Are you ready for no sex for the rest of your life?

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If I knew she had such a ridiculously low sex drive, I would not have dated her. We are aged 40. Did she issue a sex ultimatum?
Sounds like it to me.

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She is aged 42 and has hot flashes. Why is perimenopause impossible?
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Perimenopause is possible at age 42 but then again, so is pregnancy, especially when paired with lactating breasts and no period, and prior sex.
Yes, could be that she is pregnant or it could be that she is starting menopause or it could be that she has another health problem. She should see a doctor.

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She has a teenager too.
Condoms are not foolproof; I am fine with 99.8% + 98%.
Then you should be fine with her being pregnant with your child.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:50 PM
 
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That is NOT good parenting. That actually is very bad parenting.

Your children should NOT be an active part of your dating life.
I dated 8 women in the last 9 years. My children was never involved until her because I thought she was the one, but she misrepresented herself. On two occasions, she said she is okay with sex once a week. Recently, she changed it to once every 2 weeks. Once every month. Now no period no sex even if it is a whole year.

Lesson learned. I was naive
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:51 PM
 
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She is lactating because she weened off her 4 year old just 6 months ago. When I started sucking her 2 months ago, I guess it induced milk production again.

Bwahahahahaha. You're 40?

End thread.
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Old 05-13-2018, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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... I thought she was the one...
After 3 months???

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... but she misrepresented herself.
So I guess you are breaking up, since you don't trust her?
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