Why would a guy want sex from his ex when he has someone new? (wife, girlfriend)
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I’m not the ex I’m his new girl and just don’t get why he wants to be with her in that way again as if I don’t exist.
Why spend so much time trying to figure him out. Try figuring out why you put up with it.
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Originally Posted by Destini_
Yes he was, but we have been in Memphis with his real mother. His step mom and his real dad raised him in Chicago so he took me to go see his real mother in Memphis and we’ve been here for a week but he has been talking to her since we’ve been here. Yea I was a side at one point but that hasn’t been the case for the past seven months it shouldn’t be that hard to not pursue her for sex. It couldn’t have been that good if he cheated on her with me and from what I know she wasn’t even experienced he was her first for pretty much everything. I’m only 18 and she’s close to his age like 21 or something and I’m more experienced than her.
He cheated on her cause that's the kind of person he is. His cheating is not a tool for you to measure how much better you are than the ex. Stop referring to yourself as a side. I can't think of anything more humiliating and degrading!
Oh, that's easy. When comes to sex guys are not particularly picky. Old, young, attractive, ugly, fat, married, single, color, ethnicity, sex doll, goat... it doesn't really matter.
As long they can get laid..
Your guy don't want you back, he just wants sex.
I don't agree with this - many men are very discerning in who they will have sex with.
Many particularly do not want unattractive, overweight, fat, older - and definitely will not pursue sex with them, or accept if the offer is given.
Mac n cheese might be his favorite meal of all time. Eating it every day will make a man yearn for a steak every now and again. all n all Mac n cheese is still his favorite meal.
He desires sex and is fimilar with her.
That’s literally all it takes.
You’ll spend hours of wasted life trying to understand the specifics of why someone cannot hold to their own convictions. Don’t let yourself be that person while still mingling with them.
Ask yourself what’s the point of being connected to someone like him if you want something else.
I’ll say this in a more tactful way than I would like for the sake of being on the forum:
Your sexual experience and skills don’t amount to anything other than what he thought they were at the time. She may have less experience, may not be willing to perform certain acts or whatever, but sexual prowess will not keep men who are cheaters. It’s not just about sex with them. This guy could have been bored, wanted to try something new, needed someone he could easily manipulate, or just fulfill the one thing he was missing with the other relationship.
Whatever it is, since you allowed yourself to be a “side piece”, you set the tone on how he should view you. Let him go back to his ex and get more experience in self respect.
Oh, that's easy. When comes to sex guys are not particularly picky. Old, young, attractive, ugly, fat, married, single, color, ethnicity, sex doll, goat... it doesn't really matter.
As long they can get laid..
Your guy don't want you back, he just wants sex.
This loser has two girls fighting over him while some poor lonely guy is sitting in his mom's basement surfing the net and stumbling upon an incel forum for the first time. OP your boyfriend's name isn't Chad is it?
They might not date them, but just for sex... ask men.
Of course - generally speaking.
I could have had sex with a few women and I didn't, in general you're right, a lot of men will but not across the board. Plenty of guys are discriminating.
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