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The medical reason is all done now. I think people are picking up on the fact that you are making a lot of assumptions FOR HER about how she manages her time. It sounds like you are assuming that she thinks of a holiday weekend the exact same way you do.
Sure, rain happens and people will want to spend SOME time with their families. But a 3-day weekend offers plenty of opportunity to get together.
The way you're explaining it here feels like you're just limiting your own window for asking her out.
That and the fact that you suddenly started getting pissy about the phone.
3. Because when I called last week she called back in 5 mins once she saw my call
That means absolutely nothing. She called right back once--that does not mean she will call right back every single time in the future.
If I got a call from someone who didn't leave a message and I happened to notice the missed call soon after, I'd call them back right away.
If I got a call from someone who didn't leave a message and didn't notice for a while (say an hour or more later) I'd ignore it. If it was important, they would have called again, left a message or texted me. Since they didn't do that, it was either unimportant or an accident.
well I can say that now because my saturday is no longer open because of her not picking up the phone. So I will be asking her about sunday
Why not ask her what day is good for her? What if Sunday is no good, but she can have dinner with you one other night that week?
This girl kept in touch with you for quite a while during your convalescence. You might be a bit more patient with her. If she really has lost interest, you will know in time, but it seems to me like you are being quite stubborn about having things on your terms.
Why not ask her what day is good for her? What if Sunday is no good, but she can have dinner with you one other night that week?
This girl kept in touch with you for quite a while during your convalescence. You might be a bit more patient with her. If she really has lost interest, you will know in time, but it seems to me like you are being quite stubborn about having things on your terms.
I don't get this, either. Is this some kind of revolutionary concept?
OP, you asked originally if you're being petty by refusing to text her, in the absence of a response to your calls. (And it seems your calls didn't even involve leaving a message? Is that right??). People have been telling you, YES, you're being petty. But you're not accepting that answer. So, given your inflexibility on the question you posed, it seems that we're done here. I mean, why drag this out any longer? You got your answer, it's not the one you wanted, so...move on. There are other dating advice forums; maybe you'll have better luck getting validation for your stubbornness elsewhere.
Well folks it looks like it maybe over. I arranged a date with her for sunday which was yesterday and she text me on Thursday Night to let me know she has to work all weekend due to a major project. So I called tonight and she didn't pick up and no I didn't leave a message because of already being cancelled on.
I am part of the blame because I waited too long and you can't do that with a woman who is attractive with her own home and no kids. Still think it's odd we would be in contact from January to May and she wants to fade away now instead of doing it months ago.
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