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Old 06-04-2018, 09:29 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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I hung out with a friend of mine who I have always had a thing for. She has confessed she likes me too but we just never tried dating or being anything more than friends. We hung out over the weekend and at one point there was awkward silence. She asked me if I was OK and I told her yes, and confessed that I wanted to kiss her. She replied with, "so kiss me then." We started kissing and it was really passionate.



We didn't have sex or anything, but it was a nice moment. We made out and cuddled for the rest of the night. I walked her to her car and she hugged me and kissed me some more. I asked her if this meant we were going to see where this goes. She replied with, "I don't know...I'm not sure, but text me tomorrow."


Should I just roll with it and see what happens? I'm feeling so many things right now. Maybe I should take a few days to myself?

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Old 06-04-2018, 09:33 AM
 
Location: Nevada
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She asked you to text her tomorrow.

It's now tomorrow.

Text her.

If you take a few days to yourself, she'll probably think you regret making a move....
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:34 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Should I just roll with it and see what happens.

Yes.

I'm feelings so many things right now.

Normal to feel so many emotions in your situation.

Take all the time you need to consider your circumstances and confirm you want to go that route with your friend.

Sounds really nice to me...
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:44 AM
 
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So you just went up to her and said I want to kiss you? Did any convo lead up to that or you brought that up out of nowhere?
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:47 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Maybe I should take a few days to myself?
Why would you need to "take a few days to yourself"??

You're the one who initiated the kiss, and you're the one who asked if it meant anything. Soooo ... do what she asked you to do and text her.
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:48 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So you just went up to her and said I want to kiss you? Did any convo lead up to that or you brought that up out of nowhere?
He said:

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We hung out over the weekend and at one point there was awkward silence. she asked me if I was OK and I told her yes, and confessed that I wanted to kiss her. She replied with, "so kiss me then."
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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So you just went up to her and said I want to kiss you? Did any convo lead up to that or you brought that up out of nowhere?

LOL no, she knows I have been feeling this way for awhile. I just figured I'd go for it.
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:51 AM
 
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LOL no, she knows I have been feeling this way for awhile. I just figured I'd go for it.
Gotcha..if you don’t mind me asking how does she know you like her? What’s have you done to show interest?

Just asking because I’m in a similar situation
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:52 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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I did text her today to say good morning before heading into work. I think we are both still trying to process this, so I am going to take it slow.
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Old 06-04-2018, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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I did text her today to say good morning before heading into work. I think we are both still trying to process this, so I am going to take it slow.
Good idea
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