What responsibility do I have for a guy's fetish?

[TabulaRasa]

Originally Posted by Stagemomma

I said something like "I don't really get the whole sexy librarian thing" and his response was something like "Smart, glasses, hair up in a chignon and a sexy skirt and pumps"

I said "Lol, I'm a children's librarian, so I'm more of a jeans/tshirt/polka-dotted keds kinda gal"

I doubt I'll hear from him again.

Porn gives such realistic images.

The "sexy nurse" thing is hilarious...they picture Jessica Rabbit busting out of a starched white dress, and it's like...nah. Shapeless scrubs, hon.

[belle woods]

i think some guys watch porn but know that is faked lol. most can tell the difference and know that its not going to be like that in real life. yeah, its a fantasy. and i guess trying stuff from there is normal but if they want it just like porn all the time then there is def something wrong with that.

i had actually never even seen any of that stuff up until this year. And EWW lol. But i can see why guys like it. i mean, whatever others want to do is fine but its obviously for guys.

[phantompilot]

Librarian fetish is basically the same as the schoolgirl fetish. It’s the lure of the taboo and doing something sexual or illicit with an unlikely partner and hopefully in an unlikely place.