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Old 06-09-2018, 10:31 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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Originally Posted by Auraliea View Post
So you have a problem with people exchanging sex for money. But you don't have a problem with keeping people on the back burner for YOUR benefit?

Okie doke.
1.) I have no objection to prostitution as long as both parties realize the type of transaction.

2.) I just can't drive 2 hours through Los Angeles rush hour traffic to date a woman. The stress of driving in traffic freaks me out. Driving 2 hours in beautiful, low traffic countryside I find relaxing, particularly if there's horseback riding and a nice lady at the end of my drive. She should be moved in by the next day or two.

Sorry, I just can't handle heavy traffic city freeway driving. I have issues with traffic.
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Old 06-09-2018, 10:49 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Old 06-09-2018, 12:20 PM
 
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Run!!!!!
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Old 06-09-2018, 12:48 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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The OP wants a sugar daddy. It seems to me there are no innocent people in this relationship.
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Old 06-09-2018, 01:05 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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Of course you don't love him, you've never even met him. He doesn't love you, either. He is either nuts or using the time-honored tradition of saying the words "I love you" in order to get what he wants.
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Old 06-09-2018, 01:07 PM
 
Location: The ghetto
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Lovehound, I think you're using the word "orbiter" incorrectly.
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Old 06-09-2018, 02:20 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Lovehound, I think you're using the word "orbiter" incorrectly.
I have been told that 'orbiter' means a person who is in frequent contact with the 'subject' by phone, text, email, and possibly OLD messages, but they never meet in person.

If this is incorrect then I will appreciate an accurate definition, and I apologize if I have misused the term.
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Old 06-09-2018, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Here and now.
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1.) I have no objection to prostitution as long as both parties realize the type of transaction.

2.) I just can't drive 2 hours through Los Angeles rush hour traffic to date a woman. The stress of driving in traffic freaks me out. Driving 2 hours in beautiful, low traffic countryside I find relaxing, particularly if there's horseback riding and a nice lady at the end of my drive. She should be moved in by the next day or two.

Sorry, I just can't handle heavy traffic city freeway driving. I have issues with traffic.
Only one question. Does she know that you are interested in someone else? I think that may have been what that poster was getting at.
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Old 06-09-2018, 03:22 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Only one question. Does she know that you are interested in someone else? I think that may have been what that poster was getting at.
I have told my 'orbiter' to date other men, and that I am dating other women. She says she is disinterested in the OLD scene now, but I've continued to encourage her to participate. That's only smart for people who are not in stable exclusive arrangements. Part of her disinterest may be related to moving her household to an entirely different area. She may be preoccupied with moving affairs.
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Old 06-09-2018, 04:25 PM
 
Location: Here and now.
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Since the question of "orbiter" has come up, and I was unfamiliar with the term, I did a bit of looking. Here is what I found:

https://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=orbiter

I suspect there are people using this term with no ill intent, but it really isn't a very nice thing to say about someone. It's a bit like calling them a hanger-on or a groupie, although the first definition refers primarily to men. Then again, I suppose men can be groupies, too.

I hope this helps.
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