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I did not even know I was doing it. See, she is muslin and feels the women should not tell what a man is suppose to do. I came 2600 miles to help him so he could maybe get curiosity of his children. The flight was long and tiring and had to wake up a 2am to take this flight. I waited around over 2 hours at air port waiting for a ride. I finally made it to his house. I finally got to face time my husband and all I said was please keep the house clean because we are selling it. Now she does not want me to watch her kids, or have anything to do with my grand children. Because I disrespected my husband.
This morning my son chewed me out because of this.
I want to know why I have to change our religion, our ways, to please this women because she is muslin. I thought women have equal rights in America and we are not living in the 17 hundreds. I am a independent so my feelings are pushed aside.
Not only she might be hurt but so is me.
I feel things will not work out for us, we are moving because of my son new girl friend, not because we want
to. If we did move it would not be back on the east coast.
I was going to comment on the blatant errors, but then I re-read the post and decided that American English is obviously not the first language of the OP, so I decided to ignore the errors.
OP, you have inadvertently caused a religious offense against that woman. I doubt if there is anything you can do at this point to solve the problem. Your son is plainly favoring her over you, and there quite likely isn't much you can do about that, either.
There are people in this world that one must be very careful around. You had the misfortune to encounter one.
Good luck.
I did not even know I was doing it. See, she is muslin and feels the women should not tell what a man is suppose to do. I came 2600 miles to help him so he could maybe get curiosity of his children. The flight was long and tiring and had to wake up a 2am to take this flight. I waited around over 2 hours at air port waiting for a ride. I finally made it to his house. I finally got to face time my husband and all I said was please keep the house clean because we are selling it. Now she does not want me to watch her kids, or have anything to do with my grand children. Because I disrespected my husband.
This morning my son chewed me out because of this.
I want to know why I have to change our religion, our ways, to please this women because she is muslin. I thought women have equal rights in America and we are not living in the 17 hundreds. I am a independent so my feelings are pushed aside.
Not only she might be hurt but so is me.
I feel things will not work out for us, we are moving because of my son new girl friend, not because we want
to. If we did move it would not be back on the east coast.
So this is the son whose wife walked out and took their triplets?
Are your grandkids HER kids? If not, I'd tell this girlfriend ... well, you need to have a talk with your son about his life choices first.
I want to know why I have to change our religion, our ways, to please this women because she is muslin.
Not only she might be hurt but so is me.
I feel things will not work out for us, we are moving because of my son new girl friend, not because we want
to. :
1. You don'T HAVE to change your ways to accommodate your sons girlfriend...that's a CHOICE you've decided to make.
2. You are moving because YOU have decided to...unless the son and his new girlfriend have you shackled and are transporting you against your will.
Unfortunately it's your own son and husband that are putting you through this, with little regard for your feelings. Sorry, but you may just have to grin and bare it...don't blame the woman...put the blame where it belongs.
You are his mother and she is disrespecting you. Point that out to her. And she might need a reminder that she is only a girlfriend at this point, not his wife, and should know her place.
Seems like there's a backstory here. What do you mean "Help him get a curiosity about his children"? Is your son and the GF living together? Seems like that would satisfy his curiosity plenty. Or...someone alluded to the GF taking triplets to someplace else? Back to her home country?
Seems like you have to decide how important to you it is, to have a relationship with these kids. If it's really important to you, apologize to this girl, with the explanation that you did not mean to offend, and then try to bend a little for her.
To me, it seems like it comes down to what's most important for you. And I don't mean that in a condescending way at all. Maybe you CAN'T be that person she wants you to be, and if that's the case, I totally get it. In that case, I'd be telling my son "I can't undo (however old you are) of upbringing and my culture to accommodate this woman. Sorry, but you're on your own here."
Yeah....she's a crazy lady and your son is crazy to not stand up to her. You can do and say whatever you want to your husband - it's none of her business but she's using this to show what a flawed character you have and to show your unfit-ness to be around her (?) or is it her and your son's kids? If they are your son's kids with her then I have no idea how it took years for you to screw up if such a tiny thing as this is held against you.
How long have they been together? Are they going to last? Do you care about the kids?
I disagree that you can bend to suit her if you can't even ask your husband to keep the house clean while you're gone - you will fail multiple times a week, if not daily - just not realistic.
So this is the son whose wife walked out and took their triplets?
Are your grandkids HER kids? If not, I'd tell this girlfriend ... well, you need to have a talk with your son about his life choices first.
I'm really confused. How many children? How many of the these children are your son's biological children? How many are your biological Grandkids? How long has he dated this woman?
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