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I did those things out of frustration because i was being ignored and it felt awful, but I was nice about 10 minutes. Guess I wont be doing that again. Never thought of it as wrong way of communicating removing distractions. Sound like I need therapy and or professional help after this source of thing. I never had anyone cross those lines with me and I was in shock not knowing what to do. Letting my fear of loading my family not allowing me to think about my self too. I was just asking him to help out and be more contributing with chores. He was just laying in bed texting and watching tv. You all have opened my eyes, this is a toxic crappy deal I’m getting. He is an abuser for slamming me down all 260 pounds crushing me down.
[quote=Drsunrise;52214148]I did those things out of frustration because i was being ignored and it felt awful, but I was nice about 10 minutes. Guess I wont be doing that again. Never thought of it as wrong way of communicating removing distractions. Sound like I need therapy and or professional help after this source of thing. I never had anyone cross those lines with me and I was in shock not knowing what to do. Letting my fear of loading my family not allowing me to think about my self too. I was just asking him to help out and be more contributing with chores. He was just laying in bed texting and watching tv. You all have opened my eyes, this is a toxic crappy deal I’m getting. He is an abuser for slamming me down all 260 pounds crushing me down.[/QUOTE]
I hope you really believe that and act on that. It won't get better on it's own. The longer you remain in the situation the more difficult it will be for you to leave it and the greater the chance that he will hurt you again.
I did those things out of frustration because i was being ignored and it felt awful, but I was nice about 10 minutes. Guess I wont be doing that again. Never thought of it as wrong way of communicating removing distractions. Sound like I need therapy and or professional help after this source of thing. I never had anyone cross those lines with me and I was in shock not knowing what to do. Letting my fear of loading my family not allowing me to think about my self too. I was just asking him to help out and be more contributing with chores. He was just laying in bed texting and watching tv. You all have opened my eyes, this is a toxic crappy deal I’m getting. He is an abuser for slamming me down all 260 pounds crushing me down.[/QUOTE]
I hope you really believe that and act on that. It won't get better on it's own. The longer you remain in the situation the more difficult it will be for you to leave it and the greater the chance that he will hurt you again.
I will never in a million years get physical with a woman, period; I'm the type who would just leave the room even while taking a beating. But not all guys are like that. My advice is: don't start a physical confrontation and think your gender is some sort of shield. Talk or Walk are the only options for either side.
OP: Hope you can work things out with your 2 children. Many women raise children on their own.
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