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Old 07-02-2018, 08:56 PM
 
Location: singapore
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So for ladies .. if say you meet 2 different guys. 1st guy is say 45 yr old but looks like 35 yr old.. 2nd guy is 35 yr old but looks say 42 yr old .. which one would you rather date?

Someone who is actually young in age but look old or someone who is old but looks young for his age ?
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Old 07-02-2018, 08:58 PM
 
Location: South Bay Native
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So for ladies .. if say you meet 2 different guys. 1st guy is say 45 yr old but looks like 35 yr old.. 2nd guy is 35 yr old but looks say 42 yr old .. which one would you rather date?
I would date the one who has similar values and priorities in life as I.
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Old 07-02-2018, 09:03 PM
 
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The one who was full of sexy and made me laugh.
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Old 07-02-2018, 09:06 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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The look like their age isn't my priority.
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Old 07-02-2018, 10:27 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Maybe neither of them. It depends on if they have anything in common with me. It depends on whether we're able to carry on an interesting conversation together, and if they're good people.
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Old 07-02-2018, 10:42 PM
 
Location: Jacksonville
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Youth and good looks don't necessarily go hand in hand. They aren't necessarily synonymous with one another.

I get compliments (at least I take them as compliments) about my age all the time, sometimes quite frequently, if not daily on many occasions. ''What? You're how old? Really?'' or ''How old are you? What? You're kidding! I thought you were 10, 15 years younger than that!''. I don't get many ''Wow, you're so incredibly good looking!'' comments.

Diane Lane looks at least her age, which is 53, but she also looks sexier to me than most women 20-30 years younger than her.

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Old 07-02-2018, 11:32 PM
 
Location: The point of no return, er, NorCal
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I would date the one who has similar values and priorities in life as I.
Yep. I'd choose the one I'm most compatible with. I couldn't care less about how "old" or "young" he appears for his age.
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Old 07-02-2018, 11:53 PM
 
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So for ladies .. if say you meet 2 different guys. 1st guy is say 45 yr old but looks like 35 yr old.. 2nd guy is 35 yr old but looks say 42 yr old .. which one would you rather date?

Someone who is actually young in age but look old or someone who is old but looks young for his age ?
I would prefer to date the one who looks younger because that one would be the most attractive to me.
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Old 07-02-2018, 11:54 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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So for ladies .. if say you meet 2 different guys. 1st guy is say 45 yr old but looks like 35 yr old.. 2nd guy is 35 yr old but looks say 42 yr old .. which one would you rather date?

Someone who is actually young in age but look old or someone who is old but looks young for his age ?
I am not sure if I know what 42 and 35 look like, but I’d pick the one that has the most compatible lifestyle to me. They are both in my dateable range.
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Old 07-03-2018, 12:30 AM
 
Location: Auckland, New Zealand
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Youth and good looks don't necessarily go hand in hand. They aren't necessarily synonymous with one another.

I get compliments (at least I take them as compliments) about my age all the time, sometimes quite frequently, if not daily on many occasions. ''What? You're how old? Really?'' or ''How old are you? What? You're kidding! I thought you were 10, 15 years younger than that!''. I don't get many ''Wow, you're so incredibly good looking!'' comments.

Diane Lane looks at least her age, which is 53, but she also looks sexier to me than most women 20-30 years younger than her.
I get that a lot too. Also the absence of ''Wow, you're so incredibly good looking!'' comments.
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