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Old 07-15-2018, 08:50 PM
 
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Going on a date tonight

She insists it’s not a date but she’s letting me pick her up etc.

Any other tips?
Listen to the people you're trying to date
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Old 07-15-2018, 09:33 PM
 
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Of course I do. I use the term female and woman interchangeably. I see your point though.



If one is to use the bathroom line and successfully get into a woman's place, he would use the bathroom and then keep talking, kissing, and seeking to escalate the interaction into sex. A woman is to let a man know where her limits are. Men do keep pushing forward for sex. Consent needs to occur.

That whole scenario that the OP is planning is so stressful and not worth it. It is a better seduction scenario to start an evening. like a 2nd or 3rd date with the man inviting a woman over to his bachelor pad for a home dinner date. Light food served with a fantastic alcohol selection like a wine or a good cocktail. Then perhaps have some smooth jazz on in the background. Something instrumental and erotic. Kissing on the couch or straight back to the bedroom. That's a much more serene seduction.
Maybe It's just me, but that seems like a really corny method of seduction.
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Old 07-15-2018, 10:06 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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So how was the date, OP?
Hes probably trying to make bail right now
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Old 07-15-2018, 10:07 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Maybe It's just me, but that seems like a really corny method of seduction.
It IS super corny, all spelled out like that. What's worse, though, is the language describing how to "get into" a woman's house, as if it's the vault of the Bellagio and they're plotting a heist.

Guys, seriously, please remember these women you're trying to hump are people. Treat them as such instead of as targets or conquests.

If you just want to get off, go another route.

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Hes probably trying to make bail right now
OMG !!!!!
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Old 07-15-2018, 11:51 PM
 
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Listen to the people you're trying to date
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Hes probably trying to make bail right now
Oh, God, that was hilarious. Just spread rep, etc.
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Old 07-16-2018, 06:36 AM
 
Location: All over
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$20 says he won't come back to tell us.
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Old 07-16-2018, 08:24 AM
 
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I wouldn't at all to be honest for that age gap.
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Old 07-16-2018, 02:10 PM
 
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Maybe It's just me, but that seems like a really corny method of seduction.
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It IS super corny, all spelled out like that. What's worse, though, is the language describing how to "get into" a woman's house, as if it's the vault of the Bellagio and they're plotting a heist.

Guys, seriously, please remember these women you're trying to hump are people. Treat them as such instead of as targets or conquests.

If you just want to get off, go another route.

OMG !!!!!
An evening involving wine, smooth jazz, and mood enhancing elements is not corny. There's an element of romance and eroticism.
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Old 07-16-2018, 02:13 PM
 
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An evening involving wine, smooth jazz, and mood enhancing elements is not corny. There's an element of romance and eroticism.
Corny and romantic are in the mind of the beholder

I think it's corny
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Old 07-16-2018, 02:24 PM
 
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An evening involving wine, smooth jazz, and mood enhancing elements is not corny. There's an element of romance and eroticism.
Romance, maybe, but what makes you think a woman is more likely to jump into bed with you if she is getting her food, wine and (ugh) "smooth jazz" in your home rather than at a restaurant, bar, party, etc?

Are you one of those who believes that if a woman enters your home after dark she is obviously DTF?
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