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Old 07-26-2018, 10:50 PM
 
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I told her something like she is my biggest regret.

And later I said sorry for the drunk text. That was like 2 months ago. We have been talking like normal since.



She wants to talk on the phone now.



We have been friends since we broke up like 10 years ago.



But recently I realized I have real feelings for her and she could be the real deal. We started as friends, dated, broke up,stayed friends and now this. I just miss her.
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Old 07-26-2018, 11:05 PM
 
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Oh, Felix.

Have you tried really talking to her? Sober, to her face.
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Old 07-26-2018, 11:07 PM
 
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Oh, Felix.

Have you tried really talking to her? Sober, to her face.

6 months ago. But just as friends. We are long distance.
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Old 07-26-2018, 11:09 PM
 
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Have you been drinking tonight?
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Old 07-26-2018, 11:10 PM
 
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She has been saying things to me on and of for the past 10 years, but I blocked it off. But I think I really love her.
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Old 07-26-2018, 11:11 PM
 
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Have you been drinking tonight?
No, I have to work tomorrow.
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Old 07-26-2018, 11:17 PM
 
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Never mind, she just contacted me to talk on the phone.
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Old 07-29-2018, 12:59 AM
 
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About 12 days of all my emails got deleted from the account I was talking to her from. The guy she is with is very high up in tech. I'm really creeped out. About 50 emails deleted, in order for the last 12 days. All were included that I was talking to her recently. No one would have access. Ugh. Nothing like this ever happened before.



It interrupted a phone call we were supposed to have. I just got mad and said a bunch of my emails got deleted.... I dodn't remember what I said exactly after that, but I was so shocked. I just didn't want to talk. I really dont know how to make myself seem reasonable after this happened.
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Old 07-29-2018, 06:04 AM
 
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About 12 days of all my emails got deleted from the account I was talking to her from. The guy she is with is very high up in tech. I'm really creeped out. About 50 emails deleted, in order for the last 12 days. All were included that I was talking to her recently. No one would have access. Ugh. Nothing like this ever happened before.



It interrupted a phone call we were supposed to have. I just got mad and said a bunch of my emails got deleted.... I dodn't remember what I said exactly after that, but I was so shocked. I just didn't want to talk. I really dont know how to make myself seem reasonable after this happened.
Sounds like you are implying that big IT guy deleted emails from your computer. If "big guy" deleted messages from her sent box, that would have no effect on your copies of those messages. Additionally, if "big guy" tried to recall those messages, there are a bunch of criteria that need to be met to ensure the messages are deleted, one of which is that the message has to be unread by the receiver, so that's out.

The drinking sounds like an issue as is the fact that you were so angry that you don't even remember what you said. Maybe you were angry and deleted the emails yourself and don't remember? Sounds like it's best to move on from this.
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Old 07-29-2018, 08:47 AM
 
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So this "friend" you are drunk texting is married/in a relationship?

Oh dear, more bad decisionmaking by you, Felix.

More interpersonal drama and gross misreading of a situation. (No, her husband or BF did not delete emails from your computer unless you drunkenly shared your username and password.)

Do you think you have learned anything over the years?
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