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If he is somewhere in the house pleasuring himself with some porn, he is either going to make sure YOU reap the benefit of his visual aids, or make sure he doesn't have to be jumping on you more than 5 times a day by masturbating to it. Either way, he is not cheating, or lying, or playing any games.
What's hilarious about the whole scenario is that in real life he'd never have full on sex with his wife (or any other women) 5 times a day. It would be too exhausting to have to actually consider another person's needs and perhaps even last more than 3 minutes! The ONLY way he'd be able to do something sexual 5 times a day is it being masturbation - and he can rub one out so much faster if he doesn't even have to use his imagination to conjure up some hot image in his head!
Just like women fantasize about stuff they'd never do in real life - men do the same - like if they just had a hot woman who'd do it as much as they wanted it'd be 5 times a day every day! In real life it would never happen but they get to tell all their buds about how little they actually get and how much they want....
I haven't seen anywhere where she has said he is going through tons of online images (could have missed it), but I recall she said he stopped when she voiced her concerns.
... which is something that certain posters keep glossing over in order to co-opt the discussion into an off-topic rant about porn.
What's hilarious about the whole scenario is that in real life he'd never have full on sex with his wife (or any other women) 5 times a day. It would be too exhausting to have to actually consider another person's needs and perhaps even last more than 3 minutes! The ONLY way he'd be able to do something sexual 5 times a day is it being masturbation - and he can rub one out so much faster if he doesn't even have to use his imagination to conjure up some hot image in his head!
Just like women fantasize about stuff they'd never do in real life - men do the same - like if they just had a hot woman who'd do it as much as they wanted it'd be 5 times a day every day! In real life it would never happen but they get to tell all their buds about how little they actually get and how much they want....
Back in the day, when my husband was alive, he wanted it as much as he wanted it. I think the most we ever accomplished was 7 times in one day, and he would have gone on except I wasn't up for more.
As far as lasting more than 3 minutes, its really not necessarily a problem either. It just depends on the man and what he is up for. Like anything else in life, people have differing skill sets and limitations.
Consider the prologue to The Libertine. John Wilmot was a man known in his day for an insatiable appetite.
... which is something that certain posters keep glossing over in order to co-opt the discussion into an off-topic rant about porn.
And OTOH, certain posters - like me - brought up that he said he had been doing it for some time before they met, and into their marriage. Which, unless he's only been doing it to one woman all that time, in all likelihood means scrolling through a whole lot of vids. But hey. I could be wrong. Maybe it was just one porn vid, all that time. Same thing over and over. #legit
Next time just ask me straight....okay, BB? Thanks passive aggressive stuff isn't becoming to you (or anybody), and gets us nowhere. It's a means of deflection, not a real and genuine exchange. Appreciate it.
And OTOH, certain posters - like me - brought up that he said he had been doing it for some time before they met, and into their marriage. Which, unless he's only been doing it to one woman all that time, in all likelihood means scrolling through a whole lot of vids.
Next time just ask me straight....okay, BB? Thanks passive aggressive stuff isn't becoming to you (or anybody), and gets us nowhere. Appreciate it.
I have nothing to ask you. You just keep using the topic to jump off into some random deep end.
I have nothing to ask you. You just keep using the topic to jump off into some random deep end.
No, I am letting the OP know that while she went overboard initially in her reaction, her feelings as a basic thing are legitimate. And they are.
There are reasons to feel insecure regarding porn, in some circumstances. She's working these out with her therapist - but she didn't just psychotically freak out based on nothing, IMO.
Thank you for being an adult and addressing me directly. I said nothing random, it all directly related to the OP, her feelings, and the feelings of some other women that have been similar, even if not so extreme.a
I'd love the attacks to stop, though. All right? That's uncool, no matter how upset you may be, and apparently, holy hanna, I struck a nerve. But calm down on "deep end," etc. , please. Thanks.
What's hilarious about the whole scenario is that in real life he'd never have full on sex with his wife (or any other women) 5 times a day. It would be too exhausting to have to actually consider another person's needs and perhaps even last more than 3 minutes! The ONLY way he'd be able to do something sexual 5 times a day is it being masturbation - and he can rub one out so much faster if he doesn't even have to use his imagination to conjure up some hot image in his head!
Just like women fantasize about stuff they'd never do in real life - men do the same - like if they just had a hot woman who'd do it as much as they wanted it'd be 5 times a day every day! In real life it would never happen but they get to tell all their buds about how little they actually get and how much they want....
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Originally Posted by ComeCloser
Back in the day, when my husband was alive, he wanted it as much as he wanted it. I think the most we ever accomplished was 7 times in one day, and he would have gone on except I wasn't up for more.
As far as lasting more than 3 minutes, its really not necessarily a problem either. It just depends on the man and what he is up for. Like anything else in life, people have differing skill sets and limitations.
Sure...I've done it 8 times in 36 hours...but - as I said - that's not every day - and that was HIS limitation, not mine. To be clear, when I give a time of 3 minutes I'm trying to convey the amount of effort expended not skill level.
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