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Old 10-25-2018, 10:21 AM
 
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So he messaged to “check in on me”. To see if I was okay. Jerkoff.

I said:


I have gotten rid of most my baggage. I’m divorced, have a car, a full time job and quit smoking. I still have more hurtles but I can’t do it with someone who has unbelievable baggage.

I stick to my words.
In addition to baggage, you are extremely shallow and an attention seeking twit.
You can’t stick to any one thing and you attract equally dumb two dimensional, and morally questionable people.”

It felt good. I then proceeded to block him.

A weeeeee bit vindictive maybe, but DAMN it felt good.
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Old 10-25-2018, 10:24 AM
 
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So he messaged to “check in on me”. To see if I was okay. Jerkoff.

I said:


I have gotten rid of most my baggage. I’m divorced, have a car, a full time job and quit smoking. I still have more hurtles but I can’t do it with someone who has unbelievable baggage.

I stick to my words.
In addition to baggage, you are extremely shallow and an attention seeking twit.
You can’t stick to any one thing and you attract equally dumb two dimensional, and morally questionable people.”

It felt good. I then proceeded to block him.

A weeeeee bit vindictive maybe, but DAMN it felt good.

You tell him!
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Old 10-25-2018, 10:25 AM
 
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The last two relationships I ended, I got to sign off with a "go to hell" text that outlined every single thing about them and the relationship that ticked me off.

Followed by a full block.

Yes, kind of lame, but like you said, damn it felt good. It still does.
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Old 10-25-2018, 10:27 AM
 
Location: California Bay Area
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you attract equally dumb two dimensional, and morally questionable people.
Hopefully this isn't referring to you
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Old 10-25-2018, 10:36 AM
 
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Hopefully this isn't referring to you
Hopefully.
I am extremely faithful and will do anything for someone that loves and cares for me in return.
When I fall in love it is only with that person and have no interest in others.

I overlooked his bad side (my bad)


I bought into the whole “he’s changed since he was young and dumb”

It’s hard to find a faithful good partner who pulls their weight.
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Old 10-25-2018, 10:45 AM
 
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Hopefully.
I am extremely faithful and will do anything for someone that loves and cares for me in return.
When I fall in love it is only with that person and have no interest in others.

I overlooked his bad side (my bad)


I bought into the whole “he’s changed since he was young and dumb”

It’s hard to find a faithful good partner who pulls their weight.
That is so true.It is hard to find a faithful good partner BUT they're out there...somewhere.Just never settle for anyone's BS and you'll be much better off.
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Old 10-25-2018, 10:48 AM
 
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Ok.
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Old 10-25-2018, 11:12 AM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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That moment when someone starts a conversation and they've already had the first 2/3 of it in their head...
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Old 10-25-2018, 11:14 AM
 
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So he messaged to “check in on me”. To see if I was okay. Jerkoff.

I said:


I have gotten rid of most my baggage. I’m divorced, have a car, a full time job and quit smoking. I still have more hurtles but I can’t do it with someone who has unbelievable baggage.

I stick to my words.
In addition to baggage, you are extremely shallow and an attention seeking twit.
You can’t stick to any one thing and you attract equally dumb two dimensional, and morally questionable people.”

It felt good. I then proceeded to block him.

A weeeeee bit vindictive maybe, but DAMN it felt good.

The fact that you're posting about this on a message board shows me that you still have baggage.



Telling people off isn't a sign of apathy. It's a sign of still being emotionally engaged.



Just block him, unfriend him, whatever. And stop with the drama.
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Old 10-25-2018, 01:32 PM
 
Location: NW San Antonio
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The fact that you're posting about this on a message board shows me that you still have baggage.



Telling people off isn't a sign of apathy. It's a sign of still being emotionally engaged.



Just block him, unfriend him, whatever. And stop with the drama.
EXACTLY! If you have to go running around the internet trying to prove to the world that you're over something that we didn't know anything about, well, you do the math.
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