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You're consideration is noted, however, if you expect everyone to be as courteous as you, you're going to find dating very difficult. Personally, I think you have an attitude problem.
Yes, you have delivered a few snide comments re: my previous posts so do you think your "personal" thoughts matter to me?
...it depends on how LONG you knew the person.If it was someone you just met....you could ignore it BUT if it was someone whom you knew for a long time...then you should tell them what they did was not cool and cowardly then move on.
...it depends on how LONG you knew the person.If it was someone you just met....you could ignore it BUT if it was someone whom you knew for a long time...then you should tell them what they did was not cool and cowardly then move on.
"Casual encounter" 4x over 1 year period, so that is what I meant as "intermittent"
However previous hook up plans were straightforward and followed thru.
This time, he just said "What time" and no reply whatsoever after, which I just responded "Bye Felicia"
Ghosting IMO is never ok. I don’t understand what is so hard about sending a 2 sentence text. “Hey I don’t think I felt the connection I wanted to, good luck in your search” or whatever. BOOM done. It’s so easy and is the mature way to handle things and both parties can move on with their lives. Don’t text this person back. They are not worth your time or second of your thoughts.
I feel like texting a low blow to someone who recently ghosted me after a few encounters, I usually like to get the last word in.
Will that make me come off as bitter? It usually makes me feel better when I tell off someone...
Anyone tempted to tell off someone who ghosted them? Or let it slide?
Ghosting sucks. If you want to tell the person off, go ahead. Just know that he/she will probably be thinking "Phew, I really dodged a bullet with this one."
I just don't think he would read that text from you and feel angry or regretful, it's more like "Wow they're really taking this personally" and he might even feel relieved that he didn't make another plan to meet. The issue is that he doesn't care enough to text back. That sucks but there's nothing you can do to make him care more. And it's not a reflection of you nor is it the first time he's done that I'm sure.
Yes I agree that he may think that, so in this case, in off chance he may message out of nowhere months from now..that the timing of telling him off then, would be better.
Certainly he was not the most memorable encounter, there are other options for sure, it is just the inconsiderate factor that ticks me off
Ghosting IMO is never ok. I don’t understand what is so hard about sending a 2 sentence text. “Hey I don’t think I felt the connection I wanted to, good luck in your search” or whatever. BOOM done. It’s so easy and is the mature way to handle things and both parties can move on with their lives. Don’t text this person back. They are not worth your time or second of your thoughts.
Yes, after he said "What time" and something came up, he could've just messaged "Can't or No"
Takes 2 seconds, if even
Ghosting IMO is never ok. I don’t understand what is so hard about sending a 2 sentence text. “Hey I don’t think I felt the connection I wanted to, good luck in your search” or whatever. BOOM done. It’s so easy and is the mature way to handle things and both parties can move on with their lives. Don’t text this person back. They are not worth your time or second of your thoughts.
Your immaturity is preventing you from understanding human nature.
And, Exhibit A, is why casual sex is a myth. You hooked up and are now ticked that she doesn't respond.
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