Breaking up shortly after sex.

[deepsix]

Originally Posted by Lovehound

How would I know the woman I described above was really bad if I had nobody else to compare her with? She was about as exciting as I imagine a sex doll would be. Fortunately I had other better examples before and after her. She was one of the two worst I ever had.

I guess my point is you can tell if something's bad/good without having had any experiences to compare to.

For example, the first time I went out with a girl, I knew it was a bad date without having had others to compare with.

And, the first time I kissed a girl, I knew it was a good kiss without having had others to compare it to. I still think about it in a positive light (unlike my first date - which felt uncomfortable at the time).

I guess what I'm trying to say is - my first time having sex was a fantastic experience. And I'm really skeptical that sleeping with many additional women will change that perspective - or that it's even advantageous to change that perspective.

[Frihed89]

People can feel used when the outcome of having sex doesn't match their expectation or their partner's.

[Lovehound]

Originally Posted by deepsix

I guess my point is you can tell if something's bad/good without having had any experiences to compare to.

For example, the first time I went out with a girl, I knew it was a bad date without having had others to compare with.

I don't see how a man would consider his first sex anything but fantastic, just knowing he was a "real man" afterwards. To me that was my passage into manhood (as an immature man).

I can't speak for women. IDK

[reneeh63]

Originally Posted by JerZ

This is the perfect advice as she will intelligently back out of the room and run. Ergo, no rape accusation.

I once had a man ask me, "I just wanted to make sure if we have sex after this date, you won't cry rape."

We didn't have sex after that date.

Actually, we didn't have a second date, either.

It certainly won't work because either person can withdraw consent even after signing something. How do I know what the guy is gonna do or want to do after I sign? I'm not signing away my rights - that would be giving him permission to rape me but I supposedly couldn't call it that because I'd given "consent". ...doesen't work that way and it shouldn't work that way.

[joee5]

Took OP 5 dates eh? Nowadays I hear people getting what they want on the first date and afterwards calling it a night.