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How long was she with the guy before the 3 year marriage? If it was a short time and then that lousy 3 years, it shouldn’t take her long to bounce back. Anyone who has been through that is going to have trust issues. It could take months or years to work through that. Enjoy the sex. Be aware of the trust issue. Take your time and don’t rush into a committed relationship.
You have only heard one side of the story. What is it about this girl which even made her husband think of someone else? Who goes to marriage counselling for 3 years?
There is a stereotype that people who have recently divorced are more promiscuous. Ive even met men who deliberately went after recently divorced women because he believed they were easy. I have no idea if this is true, but Your lady friend many be frustrated by your lack of romantic aggressiveness.
I started dating a girl who ended a 3 year marriage 6 months ago. We are both in our 30's. Her ex cheated on her 3 days after their marriage!! And the following years were marriage counseling to make it through. It took its toll on her. She is coming on really strong, always texting me, and things are getting sexual. Even though she appears to be into me, she always seems in a bad mood or kind of sad when I am with her in person. Likely hangover from the divorce, as it took a lot out of her.
My concern is that the last girl I dated was just like her and recently divorced. She seemed very into me and came on very strong, and then she just disappeared for no reason. I was likely a rebound or she just wasn't ready to date. I have reason to be cautious. I told her upfront that I don't want to put pressure on things and have no expectations. I also still don't feel strongly for her one way or the other, so I'm not at risk of getting hurt yet. I guess as long as the sex and companionship is good for both of us, I shouldn't worry? Are there red flags here? What are your thoughts?
there is a pattern. Find out why you are attracted to moody and sad women who aren't emotional available.
I plan to address the sadness if it continues. My expectation is that if she actually likes me and is over the divorce, her mood should improve. If not, she isn’t ready and I am the rebound or just not for her.
Youre already the rebound.
If she is all chatty in text, but then is always in a bad mood in person, the cynic in my would just think she doesnt really like you, but you are the placeholder.
I also would think that she was the one that cheated after 3 days even though she says her husband did. I think she said that to throw you off the scent.
Unless you know a believable backstory to how that happened, I wouldnt buy it.
There is a stereotype that people who have recently divorced are more promiscuous. Ive even met men who deliberately went after recently divorced women because he believed they were easy. I have no idea if this is true, but Your lady friend many be frustrated by your lack of romantic aggressiveness.
Oh wow. What in my post Indicated she was frustrated my by lack of romantic aggressiveness, because she keeps giving me signals she wants me to be very romantically aggressive. Almost abnormally. She is very clear she wants and likes it when I am romantically aggressive. She commented after our last date how turned on she was after I did something sexually aggressive.
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