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Old 10-09-2018, 09:12 AM
 
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Sam Elliott, though. Am I right?

The Marlboro Man was a real cowboy. Something I hear hardly exists anymore.

 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:13 AM
 
Location: Phoenix, AZ
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I'm not saying everyone is like me, of course not but come on now...most are not into freaky (lol) on the regular nor reading how-to books on it either..

Anyway, we can agree on Sam Elliott.

Amen.

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The book is not a how-to for freaky anything (unless you consider normal partnered sex to be "freaky?") It's about why women in particular have things that inhibit or encourage sex drive. It's not about kink at all, just about how to facilitate a healthy sex life in a relationship that involves a female person. It's more about the psychology end of sexuality than the physical.

It's a self-help section sort of a book.
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:19 AM
 
Location: USA
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You may have missed it but this guy is just trying to find something...ANYTHING...to turn his wife on.
She admitted herself that they do have an effect on her, and she told me she's open to suggestions on shows we can watch. That's why I wanted to see if there were any racy ones you ladies watch that you'd recommend.

We started watching a Netflix show called "Love" that is rated MA and includes several steamy scenes (no nudity). Last night she told me the show "gives her ideas," so it's clear she's receptive to the content.
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:19 AM
 
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I'm not saying everyone is like me, of course not but come on now...most are not into freaky (lol)

I am highly amused that you think I'm freaky.
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:20 AM
 
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She admitted herself that they do have an effect on her, and she told me she's open to suggestions on shows we can watch. That's why I wanted to see if there were any racy ones you ladies watch that you'd recommend.

We started watching a Netflix show called "Love" that is rated MA and includes several steamy scenes (no nudity). Last night she told me the show "gives her ideas," so it's clear she's receptive to the content.

The thing is, every woman is going to tell you something different!
I'm not trying to be obtuse here, you've seen the jokes about how complicated women are.
You are simply going to have to ask her.
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:23 AM
 
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That's why it's very easy to clean up on chat applications. Fortunately, I don't know of any.

Clean up? You mean like get a bunch of women to have chatsex with you?
What exactly does "clean up" mean? Just curious.
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:26 AM
 
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I think women do get turned on by porn, but a lot of them do not admit it, because they don't allow themselves the freedom to enjoy it.

If they really don't care for porn at all it would probably be because its is just empty.

On the hand, erotic stories are very popular with most women. Perhaps, you should read her one or text her bits and pieces to feel her out and let it marinate with her for a while.

You may be surprised by her response.
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:29 AM
 
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We've got a chat room playa over here!
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:31 AM
 
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I am highly amused that you think I'm freaky.
lol didn't mean you on that part



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OP, just learn to talk to women or even better listen to them, but ask them the right questions.

Females have particular interests. They like it when you're schooled on the subject, but never give the presumption that you know more than them, but don't give any sign of ignorance either. It's an art. I don't know how to explain it. Let them teach you. Women like to teach you things.

Find one of those chat applications. That's the easiest way to pull a female, but I don't know if there are many that exists.

I can pull a female from any chat room on the planet, but I just got that talent. That's why I gotta stay away from chat rooms or next thing you know, I might be headed to a different destination to chill with my little intelligent princess.

I don't understand why a woman couldn't get used to just being a queen if you're taken care of and let your man have some princesses.
Lmao say what? Is it 1990?
 
Old 10-09-2018, 09:32 AM
 
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The book is not a how-to for freaky anything (unless you consider normal partnered sex to be "freaky?") It's about why women in particular have things that inhibit or encourage sex drive. It's not about kink at all, just about how to facilitate a healthy sex life in a relationship that involves a female person. It's more about the psychology end of sexuality than the physical.

It's a self-help section sort of a book.
Lawd. Of course I don't.
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