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So at work there's a girl (27F) that likes me in my department but she's not my type. In fact, she is quite repelling to me.
She keeps criticizing my work and acts like my supervisor even though she joined at the same time as I. When she acts like that I have a very nonchalant attitude which garners very little response, which is my intent. But one time she asked me if I was going to the office-wide night out at a pub and I said, "No I'm not going. Are you?" and she was like "Yes I think I'm going because I get off early."
But when I make passes in the office and look at her she averts her gaze. What's wrong? Am I too aloof or not clingy enough?
Maybe I should anomolously leave a little candy at her desk one day?
So at work there's a girl (27F) that likes me in my department but she's not my type. In fact, she is quite repelling to me.
She keeps criticizing my work and acts like my supervisor even though she joined at the same time as I. When she acts like that I have a very nonchalant attitude which garners very little response, which is my intent. But one time she asked me if I was going to the office-wide night out at a pub and I said, "No I'm not going. Are you?" and she was like "Yes I think I'm going because I get off early."
But when I make passes in the office and look at her she averts her gaze. What's wrong? Am I too aloof or not clingy enough?
Maybe I should anomolously leave a little candy at her desk one day?
In any case, what should I do when she acts like me mummy? It's quite awkward and I've caught my boss noticing something is up between that girl and me.
If you’re “Making Passes” in the office and your boss and at least one other person is noticing, I think you better clean up your act and get to work. You do want to keep the job, right?
Or just push her face in the snow.
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