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A crush is not cheating. Acting on it is. How old are you all? She sounds quite young.
Hell, I've been married 28 years and I still get crushes.
Agree. It's normal to occasionally come across someone you have a more than passing attraction to, the issue is whether you act on it and/or let that person preoccupy your thoughts to the detriment of your relationship.
Jaysus, don't listen to some of the men you're getting advice from here. You're hearing from Hates Women Because No One Will Date Him, Divorced Three Times, and Never Been in a Relationship Longer Than Two Weeks. I liked your analysis of the last conversation you had about it - stick with that sentiment. And no more saving photos of strange tarts!
Restore her trust by making her feel she is the most beautiful woman in the world -- words and actions. When I dated my now husband, I knew he was insecure about losing his hair and going bald. So I told him I found bald guys sexy, I also told him things that would build up his sexual prowess. I did find him attractive so I wasn't lying but I went out of my way to affirm his attractiveness to me.
So, imagine if I had a photo of a sexy guy with a full head of hair on my phone. What message might he take from that? I don't think he would consider that cheating but he certainly wouldn't feel as good about himself.
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Jaysus, don't listen to some of the men you're getting advice from here. You're hearing from Hates Women Because No One Will Date Him, Divorced Three Times, and Never Been in a Relationship Longer Than Two Weeks. I liked your analysis of the last conversation you had about it - stick with that sentiment. And no more saving photos of strange tarts!
Since you are trashing others credentials, what exactly qualifies you to give advice?
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