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My gf is a bit of a tom boy and has a strong personality and can be cocky. Today she was ranting about how she can beat up her past bfs and I said so you think you can beat me up? she basically said she can kick my ass. I normally don't get worked up by anything and for this one I got real pissed. I basically said if that is what you think we can go at it. No punching or kicking just straight grappling. I have a bit of grappling experience. I told her she needs to be humbled. It got real awkward in the car ride and I can't let it go. I really hate cocky people and she needs to be humbled. How would you guys respond?
I don't know how I feel about her. Our relationship is pretty recent and I have only met the sweet and feminine side but she has tomboy/strong personality/cocky qualities which are turn off.
Last edited by tomboyguy12; 10-24-2018 at 03:30 PM..
My gf is a bit of a tom boy and has a strong personality and can be cocky. Today she was ranting about how she can beat up her past bfs and I said so you think you can beat me up? she basically said she can kick my ass. I normally don't get worked up by anything and for this one I got real pissed. I basically said if that is what you think we can go at it. No punching or kicking just straight grappling. I told her she needs to be humbled. It got real awkward in the car ride and I can't let it go. I really hate cocky people and she needs to be humbled. How would you guys respond?
My gf is a bit of a tom boy and has a strong personality and can be cocky...I really hate cocky people and she needs to be humbled. How would you guys respond?
My gf is a bit of a tom boy and has a strong personality and can be cocky. Today she was ranting about how she can beat up her past bfs and I said so you think you can beat me up? she basically said she can kick my ass. I normally don't get worked up by anything and for this one I got real pissed. I basically said if that is what you think we can go at it. No punching or kicking just straight grappling. I have a bit of grappling experience. I told her she needs to be humbled. It got real awkward in the car ride and I can't let it go. I really hate cocky people and she needs to be humbled. How would you guys respond?
I don't know how I feel about her. Our relationship is pretty recent and I have only met the sweet and feminine side but she has tomboy/strong personality/cocky qualities which are turn off.
I think you should have that tumble...can't figure at all why you'd be pissed.
Personally I'd be looking forward to it...would be fun.
Be careful though....seems to me that YOU might be the one whose humbled....maybe that's got something to do with your being pissed....can't understand why though....unless you're one of those guys that like their women weak and docile.
I don't know how I feel about her. Our relationship is pretty recent and I have only met the sweet and feminine side but she has tomboy/strong personality/cocky qualities which are turn off.
If you feel that way I’m sure there is an alpha male out there who will view her strong personality as a turn on instead of a threat.
Why can’t you just turn it into a joke?
A million replies come to mind of what you could have said to diffuse that situation:
How about we wrestle in the bedroom?
I’d rather you spank my ass.
Lol, I’m sure she would have burst out laughing if you said something like this. And you both would have felt better.
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