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Old 10-30-2018, 03:43 PM
 
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Met my friend at a bar Sunday and she told me a guy she’s been on 2 casual dates with while they were on the bed told her if she ever leaves him he knows how to kill her without using fingerprints..So she keeps seeing him in fear of this..

She also seemed to be covering bruises on her face and a black eye with makeup..I asked if he hit her and she kept saying no but it’s hard for me to believe there’s no connection here.

She wanted to FaceTime him with us there and break up with him then but I told her just call the cops but she refused.

I texted her sister as well so she contacted her and when she questioned her my friend told her everything’s fine.

It’s weird to me that she contacted me like that clearly what seemed like a cry for help but at the same time won’t tell me everything?

She wouldn’t tell me who he is either but I found out through who she follows on Instagram and she just stopped unfollowing him.. I googled this guy and if this is him this guy apparently is a pretty dangerous drug dealer and she did mention when I saw her that he sold drugs.

She refuses to go to the cops so what can I really do if anything to help her?
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Old 10-30-2018, 03:48 PM
 
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This should be a no brainer.

911
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Old 10-30-2018, 03:53 PM
 
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I'm half serious...help her move.


I'd suggest you let her stay with you...but I'm not so sure that's a safe thing to do.


At any rate, I'd strongly suggest to her that she needs to be someplace else for awhile.
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Old 10-30-2018, 03:58 PM
 
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I'm half serious...help her move.


I'd suggest you let her stay with you...but I'm not so sure that's a safe thing to do.


At any rate, I'd strongly suggest to her that she needs to be someplace else for awhile.
I texted her that night that she and her daughter could stay with me if she wants but she didn’t respond.
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:04 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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5-0 as stated by levels77. Help her and you might find yourself lyin' in chalk, if indeed he is a dangerous guy.
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:06 PM
 
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5-0 as stated by level77. Help her and you might find yourself lyin' in chalk, if indeed he is a dangerous guy.
So you’re saying stay way from her?
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:09 PM
 
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So you’re saying stay way from her?
CALL 911!!! Geez!
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:11 PM
 
Location: Nantahala National Forest, NC
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Do you know her family? Parents or siblings? Someone MUST get through to her...get help from those who know her best.

contact police re threats to her life
and get restraining order.... seems appropriate to me.
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:12 PM
 
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CALL 911!!! Geez!
Unless she cooperates what can they do?

She refused to admit he hit her
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:13 PM
 
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Do you know her family? Parents or siblings? Someone MUST get through to her...get help from those who know her best.

contact police re threats to her life
and get restraining order.... seems appropriate to me.
Texted her sister and she contacted my friend and asked her about it and she said everything’s ok.
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