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Old 11-01-2018, 10:41 PM
 
Location: TN/NC
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I don't have a dog.

When I did and when he was very old, some women thought he was cute. I'm 32. My oldest pet is a cat, somewhere around 17-18. She wandered in my freshman or sophomore year of high school. She is fed a premium diet, is on a regular regimen of shots from the vet for dry skin and a few minor conditions. Otherwise, she seems perfectly healthy and could go many more years.

This cat has always been very aggressive to anyone other than me or my parents. She warmed up to one girlfriend years ago. At her age, I would only introduce the cat to someone I was seeing regularly. She doesn't really like my current girlfriend, but this cat has rarely liked anyone.
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Old 11-01-2018, 11:55 PM
 
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So I really love kids, but especially my kid. Plus, a lot of people think kids are cute. Is it okay if I bring my kid along on our date? And we either center our date around him, like a special park just for him, or else we eat at a kid-friendly establishment?
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Old 11-02-2018, 12:39 AM
 
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So I really love kids, but especially my kid. Plus, a lot of people think kids are cute. Is it okay if I bring my kid along on our date? And we either center our date around him, like a special park just for him, or else we eat at a kid-friendly establishment?
Yeah, exact same thing, your husband too.
Just ask first.

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Old 11-02-2018, 02:26 AM
 
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Nah, cant say that giving off the "I AM YOUR PRIORITY", ever landed me a second date.....Has landed me a Cya wouldnt want to be ya look .




When it comes to service pets...a guy I dated did need his trained animal nearby.


Another guy adored his Hunting dogs and they were rather mischievous in a fun way. Since I am laid back for the most part and rarely go to upscale places that would snub an animal (along with my being sometimes!) I tend to take into consideration WHO the person is, What type of pet it is, ( Note: DO NOT bring a python or a goat on a date!) and the venue? Concert? Bowling? Indoor rock climbing?


Usually a Gentlemen will "inform" the prospect just in case they have allergies or a fear of certain breeds of pets....
I personally have a huge avoidance towards rottweilers...despite folks claiming their disposition is quite amicable. Once they lay into you ...its not something to get "over", but rather to avoid.


its a personal choice for the two though and should be discussed before venturing out. Its a courtesy I'd think.
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Old 11-02-2018, 03:52 AM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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As I sit here with a 90 lb dog on my lap, you can guess which way I'm going to vote.

To me first dates are best when casual, and a lot of people are busy, so combining a first date and taking care of the dog isn't a horrible idea. I think it can be a good indicator of comparability.
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Old 11-02-2018, 04:17 AM
 
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I can’t imagine a guy being cool with a, “I couldn’t find a sitter. Why don’t we go to Chuckie Cheeses so my kids can play.”

Then dogs! “So, tell me about yourself.”

“Well, I’m a...”

“Hold on! He’s pooping. Could you hand me that baggie? ... ... GO ON! I’M LISTENING!”

“Well, I was sayi...”

“EWW GROSS!”
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Old 11-02-2018, 04:17 AM
 
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I don't really mind it, I like dogs. It's when they want to bring their kid on a first date is when it becomes an issue.
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Old 11-02-2018, 05:48 AM
 
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I guess all three have had various degrees of success of meeting/hooking up with women because of their dogs. Maybe for them it's their perfect wingman cuz having three is odd. Must be a lot of sex success because of their pets.
Maybe. I do think it’s weird that there were three in quick succession in the same area. I guess if it works for them more often than not, there is no reason for them to stop doing it. Personally, I think they should let the other party know beforehand, especially on a first date. I’ve never done online dating, so I am not sure of all the rules or expectations.
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Old 11-02-2018, 08:39 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I thought about asking the guy with a puppy to leave his dog home. It felt rude no matter how I rehearsed it though. But maybe I need to start just doing that. If it offends him, it won't work out anyway.
No maybe about it.

Next time a date wants to bring his dog just use the earlier comment, that the dog would distract from the conversation.

Anybody who needs to bring their dog on a date probably needs an emo support dog.

Just quit doing that. Turn down dates that involve dogs and switch the plans to something else, in a polite way.

You said you are online dating. I suspect your profile may have too much dog interest shown. If so, tone it down. Just include a picture of your dog and mention that you love animals.
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Old 11-02-2018, 09:02 AM
 
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No pets on dates. No no no.
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