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Old 11-03-2018, 01:15 AM
 
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I agree with what Levels said about the phrasing. If he had low T or some physical issue he would have said he has a low sex drive right now. He wouldn’t have said he’s not sexually attracted to you. Unless he’s an idiot because that’s almost the most upsetting thing you can say to your SO.
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Old 11-05-2018, 02:59 PM
 
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I agree with what Levels said about the phrasing. If he had low T or some physical issue he would have said he has a low sex drive right now. He wouldn’t have said he’s not sexually attracted to you. Unless he’s an idiot because that’s almost the most upsetting thing you can say to your SO.
He said it started when his brother and his brothers girlfriend had a pregnancy scare and he’s worried about the same thing?
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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He said it started when his brother and his brothers girlfriend had a pregnancy scare and he’s worried about the same thing?
Presumably y'all are using reliable birth control?
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:03 PM
 
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Presumably y'all are using reliable birth control?
Yes. I’m on the pill.
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:05 PM
 
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He said it started when his brother and his brothers girlfriend had a pregnancy scare and he’s worried about the same thing?
I’m really scratching my head here.

How did this make him loose sexual attraction to you? It didn’t just dawn on him that you are a female with ovaries.

Such a BS excuse and I stand by my initial advice. Break up with him.

If there was truly a concern for unintended pregnancy, he would use condoms, but a home pregnancy test, and ask you to go on birth control.
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:10 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Yes. I’m on the pill.
Was his brother's girlfriend on the pill too?
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:15 PM
 
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Was his brother's girlfriend on the pill too?
I don’t know...but his brother didn’t want to keep the kid and was really stressed about it...we weren’t using anything for a hike and I recently got on birth control.
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:19 PM
 
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He said it started when his brother and his brothers girlfriend had a pregnancy scare and he’s worried about the same thing?
Tell him that your birth control plus him using a condom is highly reliable. Problem solved If he is still weird about it and making excuses I’d probably be ending the relationship, honestly.
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:21 PM
 
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I don’t know...but his brother didn’t want to keep the kid and was really stressed about it...we weren’t using anything for a hike and I recently got on birth control.
Well thank god you did. How long for the three years were you NOT on the pill?
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Old 11-05-2018, 03:28 PM
 
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well thank god you did. How long for the three years were you not on the pill?
2.5
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