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My LDR gf who is 17 told me that she can't do it anymore and that she's exhausted after a small argument. I asked her if she still wants to be friends or if she really doesn't wanna talk to me at all anymore but I got no answers and she completely ignores me. She did reply once after I insulted her out of frustration(I know it was immature but **** happens), so I know she is reading my messages. I just don't understand why she hasn't removed or blocked me on anything when all she's doing is ignoring me. My guess is that she is unsure about what to do or she feeds off my messages by reading them but ignoring them. I stopped attempting to talk to her few days ago but I don't know if I should block her or not. Any advice?
Yes, here's some advice. Remove her from your life. She is ignoring you because she is playing games and wants to see if she can hold you attention. Same with failing to remove or block you. Her choices and behaviors are given to immaturity or downright meanness. Either reason ought to give you great pause and cause you to ask yourself why such treatment of you is acceptable. Maybe give some thought and consideration to finding a partner who actually treats you with respect--less drama and a better life.
Not being judgmental, but I don't understand how a long distance relationship begins between 2 people who are 4 years apart in age. Assuming you guys ever lived in the same area, she would've been in 8th grade when you were in 12th grade... Am I missing something?
She wants to continue to read you messages but you are in the back burner. Dont read too much into it. She is just looking for entertainment. She can't have that if she blocks you.
Also, the best way of getting someone's attention....is by removing yours. Don't contact her in any way, shape or form. Just go on as if she doesn't even exist.
Not being judgmental, but I don't understand how a long distance relationship begins between 2 people who are 4 years apart in age. Assuming you guys ever lived in the same area, she would've been in 8th grade when you were in 12th grade... Am I missing something?
I wouldn't be surprised if they have never met in person and this was a 100% online "relationship."
My LDR gf who is 17 told me that she can't do it anymore and that she's exhausted after a small argument. I asked her if she still wants to be friends or if she really doesn't wanna talk to me at all anymore but I got no answers and she completely ignores me. She did reply once after I insulted her out of frustration(I know it was immature but **** happens), so I know she is reading my messages. I just don't understand why she hasn't removed or blocked me on anything when all she's doing is ignoring me. My guess is that she is unsure about what to do or she feeds off my messages by reading them but ignoring them. I stopped attempting to talk to her few days ago but I don't know if I should block her or not. Any advice?
If you truly want to move on, yes block her. If you want to reconcile than wait it out and see if she simmers down. Her behavior is very immature but she's also very young so it's understandable.
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