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The more I think about this the more I lean towards feeling after 4 dates he is no longer as interested as he may have been before....but he is not either man or mature enough to come right out to tell you or he is wavering in his own thoughts but sending the picture of his medicine and also telling you maybe bring him some fruit if he is still sniffling next freaking weekend after you asked if you may bring him something now makes me go...hmmmmmmm.....
The more I think about this the more I lean towards feeling after 4 dates he is no longer as interested as he may have been before....but he is not either man or mature enough to come right out to tell you or he is wavering in his own thoughts but sending the picture of his medicine and also telling you maybe bring him some fruit if he is still sniffling next freaking weekend after you asked if you may bring him something now makes me go...hmmmmmmm.....
Exactly how I feel. He won’t want to see me now but maybe next freaking weekend... he made it sound like he’s gonna be sick for a long time. Meaning no dates will be scheduled.
But he still keeps texting me after I kinda stopped responding every texts of his. So I don’t know how to react to that.. I don’t want to totally ghost on him either do I want to be his pen pal. Should I just straight up tell him how I feel and be done?
Exactly how I feel. He won’t want to see me now but maybe next freaking weekend... he made it sound like he’s gonna be sick for a long time. Meaning no dates will be scheduled.
But he still keeps texting me after I kinda stopped responding every texts of his. So I don’t know how to react to that.. I don’t want to totally ghost on him either do I want to be his pen pal. Should I just straight up tell him how I feel and be done?
I feel you should let him know how you are now feeling.....ask him point blank if he wants to continue dating once he feels better. You can't allow yourself to be eaten up by this doubt you have....so speak what's on your mind. And what will be will be.
Also, he may keep texting you after you stop responding because he senses your doubt about his being sick....I say that because of him sending you a picture of his medicine which to me seems a strange thing to do...he may be simply ill but if he is no longer as interested he still is wavering in his own thoughts...
Also, me may keep texting you after you stop responding because he senses your doubt about his being sick....I say that because of him sending you a picture of his medicine which to me seems a strange thing to do...he may be simply ill but if he is no longer as interested he still is wavering in his own thoughts...
So again yes, tell him how you are feeling.
Yes odd to send a pic, "overcompensating" is not quite the right word, but it is almost like he is not even sick then you will send a pic of the medicine
Yes odd to send a pic, "overcompensating" is not quite the right word, but it is almost like he is not even sick then you will send a pic of the medicine
I think overcompensating is correct.
Earlier in the thread I said he's lying. Maybe he actually does feel sick, but something isn't right here.
If he wanted to push away the OP, I don't think he'd bother with a picture and all the texts. It seems important to him that the OP doesn't think he's lying. Again, though, something's not right.
OP, does this guy work? If so, is he planning to stay home all week?
This is the guy who told you “I love you” and said he wanted to be bf/gf, right? Here’s how you find out if he’s just going cold on you. Say, “I’m coming over to bring you soup because that’s what girlfriends do” and see how he responds. If he acts weird about that then open a conversation about his mixed signals.
I would think if he's lying he would have said 101 or 102.
This just sounds more like ignorance with maybe a touch of hypochondria mixed in
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