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Old 11-06-2018, 03:59 PM
 
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All you can do is ask.

I have asked him to remove pictures of us on social media. I told him that I do not want to be associated with him and would appreciate it if he removed my pictures. I do not want to become part of his collection.

If someone told me to remove their pictures then I would do it. Pronto.

He refuses. Well okay. Nothing I can do. My bad. It’s a petty thing, moving on.

No harm in asking. I will deal with it and move on.

My question; is there something wrong with a person who refuses to take down your pictures when you ask them to?

Exerting some kind of control?


Or should I just eat ice cream and forget about such a petty ‘Sinfeld-esq’ moment?
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Old 11-06-2018, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Nothing I can do.
Correct.


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Exerting some kind of control?
Probably, and now that he knows it bothers you, he will NEVER take them down.


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Or should I just eat ice cream and forget about such a petty ‘Sinfeld-esq’ moment?
Might as well!
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Old 11-06-2018, 05:46 PM
 
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Probably, and now that he knows it bothers you, he will NEVER take them down.

Yes indeed. Until he meets someone else, he knows they bother you - Sorry, but you will probably have to live with it for a while
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Old 11-06-2018, 05:53 PM
 
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I don't know your history, but without any details about the relationship or breakup I would chalk this up to mere laziness.
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Old 11-10-2018, 05:47 AM
 
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“Stop doing that!”

“Stop doing what?”

“That!!”

“Does THAT bother you?”
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Old 11-10-2018, 06:47 AM
 
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My question; is there something wrong with a person who refuses to take down your pictures when you ask them to?

Exerting some kind of control?
Seems to me that the person asking is trying to control.

Who cares what pictures he has up? Don't look and don't care.
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Old 11-10-2018, 02:04 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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Why do people get worked up? .... its history.. you cannot erase it. You can't force anyone to erase history either.

Let it be... move on...

You can't control what people do but you certainly can control how you react to them.
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