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Old 11-11-2018, 08:19 PM
 
Location: Pa
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She should check for allergies.
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Old 11-11-2018, 09:50 PM
 
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OP has not mentioned if she is willing to go to the doctor.

I find it telling that she is the one getting upset he’s not spending the night.

Ear plugs also suck. They are good for a temporary situation but can’t see it being a long term solution.
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Old 11-11-2018, 09:59 PM
 
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OP has not mentioned if she is willing to go to the doctor.

I find it telling that she is the one getting upset he’s not spending the night.

Ear plugs also suck. They are good for a temporary situation but can’t see it being a long term solution.
I like earplugs. I love my facemask and the earplugs.........ah, dark and quiet.
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Old 11-12-2018, 05:50 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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OP could also wait till his GF is asleep and quietly go to another room and sleep on the sofa. As an excuse he could tell that he was not feeling well/ or was restless tossing and turning, and didn't want to wake her up.
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Old 11-12-2018, 08:13 AM
 
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OP could also wait till his GF is asleep and quietly go to another room and sleep on the sofa. As an excuse he could tell that he was not feeling well/ or was restless tossing and turning, and didn't want to wake her up.
Doing that every night is just running away from the problem, and if she snores loud he probably still wouldnt get any sleep.
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Old 11-12-2018, 08:17 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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It's a sleep over not moving in.
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Old 11-12-2018, 08:19 AM
 
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It's a sleep over not moving in.
He should be honest. Why you recommended him not tell the truth? That is really bad advice. They are in a relationship, I doubt she wants him to sleep over just this one time.
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Old 11-12-2018, 08:24 AM
 
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It's a sleep over not moving in.
Either way, they would both still be there for at least 8 hours to sleep, and if she snores loud he would probably be able to hear her from another room. OP said he is a light sleeper WITH insomnia. He already knows he wont sleep with her there. Eventually he might be thinking about the future and if he can put up with this.
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Old 11-12-2018, 08:36 AM
 
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Either way, they would both still be there for at least 8 hours to sleep, and if she snores loud he would probably be able to hear her from another room. OP said he is a light sleeper WITH insomnia. He already knows he wont sleep with her there. Eventually he might be thinking about the future and if he can put up with this.
Agreed. If he wants to be in a long term relationship with her, this can become a huge problem downthe line

Now it’s one thing if the gf went to the doctor and lost weight ( a lot of times that helps the snoring). If she still snores after that at least he can feel like they both tried everything, and maybe he is ok paying the the extra cost to sleep by himself
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Old 11-12-2018, 08:38 AM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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True, but this was meant to be one time fix till they decide what to do with her snoring.

It's a pretty common problem, though
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