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Old 11-15-2018, 03:15 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Sorry. But see I am not hunting for anybody. I jus unfortunately fell for this guy. He had five girls before in all means. And now with me. But he is nice that he is ignoring me since I am married. I take your opinion very seriously and will work on it.
Who are you responding to? What are you talking about, hunting?

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Old 11-15-2018, 04:40 PM
 
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How do men feel when they have sex? Don’t they get mentally connected ? How easy is it for them to play with ? Jus curious ?
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Old 11-15-2018, 08:04 PM
 
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Who are you responding to? What are you talking about, hunting?

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To you . For your comment - The reason you keep “lusting after men” in your workplace is because you are human and your brain is trying to maintain some semblance of normal human operations in your very spartan relationship
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Old 11-15-2018, 08:07 PM
 
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... but not with him.

With him maybe. Because I was at home for 7 years without job n I met people only since last 3 years at workplaces by myself. N this is the relationship I messed up with since last 8 months.
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Old 11-15-2018, 08:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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To you . For your comment - The reason you keep “lusting after men” in your workplace is because you are human and your brain is trying to maintain some semblance of normal human operations in your very spartan relationship
Soooo ... are you saying you aren’t lusting after the guy at work?

You said you think about it all the time.
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Old 11-15-2018, 08:55 PM
 
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Soooo ... are you saying you aren’t lusting after the guy at work?

You said you think about it all the time.
It is not jus sex. More than that. And we are not fully into it. Jus worried .
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Old 11-15-2018, 09:21 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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It is not jus sex. More than that. And we are not fully into it. Jus worried .
Ok but you see my point about how your mind is desperately trying to find the connection that you and your husband are missing.

If you (and your husband) turn your focus completely to your marriage, you may be able to improve your situation at home.
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Old 11-16-2018, 09:35 AM
 
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My son is my husband. The old ex I had only phone relationship. My husband had another same relationship too. But not as deep I had with my ex. I shared a few pics of mine n he cheated on t. That left me to mental break down. My husband loves me. But we both are not into physical relationship . Lately when hubby came to kn9w ab9ut the new one we both try to work on it. Still I need this new guy. But he is avoiding me . He hit me up and turned me on. But ever since he felt I am serious he avoids. I had son jus for the sake of having it. No urges at all then. Me and my husband I think we both killed the urge we had on past experiences. We jus hug and sleep.
huh!?!???????????!!!!!!!!!!


Anyways, just divorce. You two aren't happy together. If the son doesn't already know, then he will soon and sleeping around outside of marriage is not something you want your child to know.
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Old 11-16-2018, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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huh!?!???????????!!!!!!!!!!
I'm pretty sure she meant "my son is my husband's (child)."

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Old 11-16-2018, 10:36 AM
 
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I do think you and your husband should try VERY hard to maintain your marriage and family. It's remarkable that he knows about your affairs and can take a somewhat objective approach with you.
Im with Birdie.
You need to stop looking outside your marriage and work on what you have at home 100% or get divorced. You cant do this halfway. See if you can get your husband to be the person that he was when you liked him. I dont know if thats possible if you both are completely different people after 10 years, but you should give it a good try for your son. With therapy.
You want the sensation of romance, but you also have to realize that goes away after a while with anyone. Even if you had a legitimate relationship with the guy at work, the romance would have died off there too.
If you want to start dating guys, you have to finish what you started with your husband first.
And leave your guy at work alone, hes not interested in you anymore.
If you dont stay with your husband, you will have to be coached on how dating works in the states.
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