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so last week i went on a date with this girl, got little too excited over text. did i MAKE her friendzone me or was this bound to happen? i mean i'm just speaking my mind on text and if she was receptive she wouldn't have friendzoned me, no? the date went great too, first date but we kissed n held hands n stuff.
her : Thank you for today. It was so nice to meet you!
me : Likewise
me : Ill probably miss u lol
me : *definitely
me : I feel insecure. Can u tell me something definitive? Lol
her : Sorry i fell asleep on the train
me : Nicr
me : Nice*
her : Still not home
me : Im still drunk
me : thats what u get for stayin out late
her : Emoticons
me : Wtf? Lol
me : Lets meet again soon i truly like u i wont ********** up
her : I’d like to see you again. But I have to be honest with you. I have too much to work through before giving anyone my heart.
me : I can help u work on that
her : It’s like this last relationship took something from me. It would be unfair to pursue something in my state
me : U call the shots
me : What do u want?
me : I know im messed up too
her : I just dont want to be like this anymore.
me : But i know theres hope
me : Like what
her : I can’t give anyone a million broken pieces
her : This is ****ed up
me : I saw beauty in u
me : Lol i was blinded :cheese:
me : Uhgggg im drunk lo
me : Lol
me : Ima call u lol
me : No?
me : Ill let u be. Sorry
her : Just got home
her : Let’s talk tomorrow
me : Thank you
me : Good night
(bit of small talk here)
me : I wanna give you my best. I hope you give me a chance
her : You’re an amazing guy
me : U too
me : An amazing girl
her : I am just not ready for to give anyone my heart atm
me : So its a no..
me : U dont have to be ready. Id like to believe in miracles lol
me : U saw me. Im not ready either. Sometimes we need help
me : Give it a chance please. I know something really good can come out of this. I believe it.
me next morning) ...im sorry i was drunk. We'll take it slow
her : Hope you slept well
her : I can be your friend but I don’t want to give you the idea that it’s more than that. I’m not ready and you aren’t either.
me : I want it to be more than that and i think in time it should be
me : I felt happy. I want more of that. Id like to think i made you happy too..
her : Yes it was a great day but I have to be in love for this to be more
her : And my heart just won’t allow anyone in yet
her : So i am not goin to waste your time
so last week i went on a date with this girl, got little too excited over text. did i MAKE her friendzone me or was this bound to happen? i mean i'm just speaking my mind on text and if she was receptive she wouldn't have friendzoned me, no? the date went great too, first date but we kissed n held hands n stuff.
her : Thank you for today. It was so nice to meet you!
me : Likewise
me : Ill probably miss u lol
me : *definitely
me : I feel insecure. Can u tell me something definitive? Lol
her : Sorry i fell asleep on the train
me : Nicr
me : Nice*
her : Still not home
me : Im still drunk
me : thats what u get for stayin out late
her : Emoticons
me : Wtf? Lol
me : Lets meet again soon i truly like u i wont ********** up
her : I’d like to see you again. But I have to be honest with you. I have too much to work through before giving anyone my heart.
me : I can help u work on that
her : It’s like this last relationship took something from me. It would be unfair to pursue something in my state
me : U call the shots
me : What do u want?
me : I know im messed up too
her : I just dont want to be like this anymore.
me : But i know theres hope
me : Like what
her : I can’t give anyone a million broken pieces
her : This is ****ed up
me : I saw beauty in u
me : Lol i was blinded :cheese:
me : Uhgggg im drunk lo
me : Lol
me : Ima call u lol
me : No?
me : Ill let u be. Sorry
her : Just got home
her : Let’s talk tomorrow
me : Thank you
me : Good night
(bit of small talk here)
me : I wanna give you my best. I hope you give me a chance
her : You’re an amazing guy
me : U too
me : An amazing girl
her : I am just not ready for to give anyone my heart atm
me : So its a no..
me : U dont have to be ready. Id like to believe in miracles lol
me : U saw me. Im not ready either. Sometimes we need help
me : Give it a chance please. I know something really good can come out of this. I believe it.
me next morning) ...im sorry i was drunk. We'll take it slow
her : Hope you slept well
her : I can be your friend but I don’t want to give you the idea that it’s more than that. I’m not ready and you aren’t either.
me : I want it to be more than that and i think in time it should be
me : I felt happy. I want more of that. Id like to think i made you happy too..
her : Yes it was a great day but I have to be in love for this to be more
her : And my heart just won’t allow anyone in yet
her : So i am not goin to waste your time
First of all, she didn't friendzone you. You aren't even friends.
She's letting you down easy.
She's not into you romantically and is trying to back out as gracefully as possible.
For the sake of your own dignity, please don't drunk text anymore like what you sent her after your first date. It's just toooooooo much.
so last week i went on a date with this girl, got little too excited over text. did i MAKE her friendzone me or was this bound to happen? i mean i'm just speaking my mind on text and if she was receptive she wouldn't have friendzoned me, no? the date went great too, first date but we kissed n held hands n stuff.
her : Thank you for today. It was so nice to meet you!
me : Likewise
me : Ill probably miss u lol
me : *definitely
me : I feel insecure. Can u tell me something definitive? Lol
her : Sorry i fell asleep on the train
me : Nicr
me : Nice*
her : Still not home
me : Im still drunk
me : thats what u get for stayin out late
her : Emoticons
me : Wtf? Lol
me : Lets meet again soon i truly like u i wont ********** up
her : I’d like to see you again. But I have to be honest with you. I have too much to work through before giving anyone my heart.
me : I can help u work on that
her : It’s like this last relationship took something from me. It would be unfair to pursue something in my state
me : U call the shots
me : What do u want?
me : I know im messed up too
her : I just dont want to be like this anymore.
me : But i know theres hope
me : Like what
her : I can’t give anyone a million broken pieces
her : This is ****ed up
me : I saw beauty in u
me : Lol i was blinded :cheese:
me : Uhgggg im drunk lo
me : Lol
me : Ima call u lol
me : No?
me : Ill let u be. Sorry
her : Just got home
her : Let’s talk tomorrow
me : Thank you
me : Good night
(bit of small talk here)
me : I wanna give you my best. I hope you give me a chance
her : You’re an amazing guy
me : U too
me : An amazing girl
her : I am just not ready for to give anyone my heart atm
me : So its a no..
me : U dont have to be ready. Id like to believe in miracles lol
me : U saw me. Im not ready either. Sometimes we need help
me : Give it a chance please. I know something really good can come out of this. I believe it.
me next morning) ...im sorry i was drunk. We'll take it slow
her : Hope you slept well
her : I can be your friend but I don’t want to give you the idea that it’s more than that. I’m not ready and you aren’t either.
me : I want it to be more than that and i think in time it should be
me : I felt happy. I want more of that. Id like to think i made you happy too..
her : Yes it was a great day but I have to be in love for this to be more
her : And my heart just won’t allow anyone in yet
her : So i am not goin to waste your time
You can't MAKE anyone do anything or see you a certain way. One good thing is that she had the decency to let you know that she is not looking for anything...at least with you.
She's not stringing you along. So, take it for what it is. Maybe look at your behavior, but remember, it just wasn't a match for whatever reason. Keep living, learning, growing, etc.
Looks like several clear No’s to me. Pushing at that sounds needy and possibly creepy.
The friendzone is somewhere you put yourself. Either see a woman as a friend or as a romantic possibility. To see her as both is to be in the friendzone. Doesn’t sound like you’re friends, though...sounds like you barely know each other.
But your often nonsensical, immature annoying texts revealed enough about your style to turn her off, quite possibly
This, unfortunately. Reading through your text exchange was painful, cringe-inducing. If she did have any interest the outright goofiness of the texts threw ice water all over that slight spark.
Silly as it may appear to some, a person can and will make a judgement about what they're getting into with you based on the sorts of texts you send. Also, the incessant usage of 'LOL' can be quite irritating unless the person using it repeatedly is actually, genuinely laughing. I don't see deciding to call someone, laughing out loud to oneself at the thought of calling them, then typing 'Ima call u lol'. It makes no goddamned sense, man.
I echo what the others said, OP. A lot of needless things you texted her and the fact that you were drunk texting at all. Not good.
And starting off by telling her you’re insecure? You’re making yourself sound like you’re very unsuccessful with dating. And even if that’s true, there’s ways to make it seem like that’s not true and to hide that, but starting off about being insecure is not a good way in doing that.
This, unfortunately. Reading through your text exchange was painful, cringe-inducing. If she did have any interest the outright goofiness of the texts threw ice water all over that slight spark.
Silly as it may appear to some, a person can and will make a judgement about what they're getting into with you based on the sorts of texts you send. Also, the incessant usage of 'LOL' can be quite irritating unless the person using it repeatedly is actually, genuinely laughing. I don't see deciding to call someone, laughing out loud to oneself at the thought of calling them, then typing 'Ima call u lol'. It makes no goddamned sense, man.
Agree with all of the above. Plus, this was way too much after one date.
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