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Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by ThisTown123
I'm not sure you got what I said, but I specifically pointed out that the longer I keep seeing a woman on a site...the more these ladies tend to make "Updates" to their profile and vent their frustrations or sometimes I'd see, "I'm giving this another try" or "third time's a charm". So they get marked as "that gal" in this case. .
I doubt they give a crud what you "mark" them.
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Originally Posted by ThisTown123
They don't seem to figure out what it is they are doing wrong.
They very well may be doing absolutely nothing wrong.
There must be tons of single people arguing back and forth, Some of the side of "Get the chip off your shoulder, and you'll have better luck" and some arguing the serious disadvatnage of online dating...where men rarely get responses, and the women get tons of emails they have to sort through.
A small minority expressed that they won't even touch online dating, because there's a serious hint of desperation for even exploring the site and the extreme focus on finding "The one' as opposed to meeting organically like our previous, pre-Internet days."
The same can be said of him. He just hasn't found his match yet.
Right, pot for every lid... you know..of all this hub-bub I kept posting about....I never had mentioned some of the women, though few and far between, that were genuinely attracted to me...and dated for a few months. Some were wonderful ladies. The last one was separated, so...there was an issue of her putting off the divorce. One before that was a great gal, but she wanted kids, I did not.
The same can be said of him. He just hasn't found his match yet.
He seems to be too busy memorizing women's dating profiles so he can notice their updates and pass judgment. Priorities are out of whack if he actually wants a date.
He seems to be too busy memorizing women's dating profiles so he can notice their updates and pass judgment. Priorities are out of whack if he actually wants a date.
and yet...
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Originally Posted by ThisTown123
A small minority expressed that they won't even touch online dating, because there's a serious hint of desperation for even exploring the site and the extreme focus on finding "The one' as opposed to meeting organically like our previous, pre-Internet days."
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by RbccL
and yet...
Yes, he had dozens of posts saying he doesn't do online dating, meet ups was where it was at, yet he knows the status of hordes of profiles year after year.
Yeah when people's arguments and mindsets are disproved/fall a part like that....
It's time to stop the charade and face the truth.
HE'S the problem.
The fear of personal responsibility is real out in these streets.
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