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He initiated the break up, and told me he was mentally and emotionally hurt & will always love me. Since the breakup, we have been in constant contact and usually we are arguing about the break up, or he brings up things from my social medias. Sometimes under an “a fake page sent me this” type stuff. Anyway, When I ask if we will ever get back together or see each other, his responses are “i don’t know what the future holds” “I’m 99.9% sure we will never get back together” “for right now we will not be intimate, hanging out, etc” “i don’t feel like i have to give you an answer”. What does all this mean? He’s also said he doesn’t want me in his life but wants to remain friends??? We have been broken up since september... It’s just hard to understand him. When we first broke up, he was kind of at a “we will see” phase about us getting back together... And i’ve managed to mess that up by causing arguments... He’s drunk dialed me one time by swears it was just a butt dial, but when I text him asking why did he call he blew up on me and said I was looking for excuses to talk to him. Any time we get to talking, it’s always about the break up and it’s usually just him rambling about what i did wrong and whatever he managed to get from my social media. the latest argument was, a “fake page” sent him screenshots of me having a new man and being engaged and probably some of the most minor things. he was quick to mention he didn’t believe i was engaged, though. but i just don’t believe there’s really a “page” sending him anything from my social media. When I did have my social media’s, and we were still connected, I noticed he would post pics of himself at a restaurant i introduced him to or saying things to make himself “noticed” (it’s probably me just overthinking.) I’ve since deleted my social media’s because I don’t want to cause any conflict.
He initiated the break up, and told me he was mentally and emotionally hurt & will always love me. Since the breakup, we have been in constant contact and usually we are arguing about the break up, or he brings up things from my social medias. Sometimes under an “a fake page sent me this” type stuff. Anyway, When I ask if we will ever get back together or see each other, his responses are “i don’t know what the future holds” “I’m 99.9% sure we will never get back together” “for right now we will not be intimate, hanging out, etc” “i don’t feel like i have to give you an answer”. What does all this mean? He’s also said he doesn’t want me in his life but wants to remain friends??? We have been broken up since september... It’s just hard to understand him. When we first broke up, he was kind of at a “we will see” phase about us getting back together... And i’ve managed to mess that up by causing arguments... He’s drunk dialed me one time by swears it was just a butt dial, but when I text him asking why did he call he blew up on me and said I was looking for excuses to talk to him. Any time we get to talking, it’s always about the break up and it’s usually just him rambling about what i did wrong and whatever he managed to get from my social media. the latest argument was, a “fake page” sent him screenshots of me having a new man and being engaged and probably some of the most minor things. he was quick to mention he didn’t believe i was engaged, though. but i just don’t believe there’s really a “page” sending him anything from my social media. When I did have my social media’s, and we were still connected, I noticed he would post pics of himself at a restaurant i introduced him to or saying things to make himself “noticed” (it’s probably me just overthinking.) I’ve since deleted my social media’s because I don’t want to cause any conflict.
Are you in high school?
He's too immature and insecure to have a girlfriend, and you don't seem to understand that you shouldn't want to be with someone who makes it clear they can't handle being with you.
Cut him off. Block him and move forward with your life. What you're describing here is ridiculous.
He's too immature and insecure to have a girlfriend, and you don't seem to understand that you shouldn't want to be with someone who makes it clear they can't handle being with you.
Cut him off. Block him and move forward with your life. What you're describing here is ridiculous.
Unfortunately, I am 24 and he is 38. I have a bad habit of over thinking a whole lot and I just asked for clarity from outsiders.
Unfortunately, I am 24 and he is 38. I have a bad habit of over thinking a whole lot and I just asked for clarity from outsiders.
The two of you have broken up. If you feel confused, it is probably because you are continuing contact. Just stop. There are no deep hidden meanings in anything he says.
The two of you have broken up. If you feel confused, it is probably because you are continuing contact. Just stop. There are no deep hidden meanings in anything he says.
Rehardless if we don’t speak or not, when we do, it is an hour long or longer conversation of what’s going on on my Facebook, or how I haven’t changed, etc etc
Unfortunately, I am 24 and he is 38. I have a bad habit of over thinking a whole lot and I just asked for clarity from outsiders.
Judging from what you wrote, you dodged a major bullet! Count yourself lucky to have done so, avoid contact with this man, lick your wounds/regroup, and move on.
A man who still has the patience to participate in this level of petty drama is *not* someone with whom you want to form a more permanent or long-term relationship.
Judging from what you wrote, you dodged a major bullet! Count yourself lucky to have done so, avoid contact with this man, lick your wounds/regroup, and move on.
A man who still has the patience to participate in this level of petty drama is *not* someone with whom you want to form a more permanent or long-term relationship.
He’s done a lot. This is our second break up. The first time around, when he got back together, he had invited me to a hotel room and there was another woman there, in which he kicked her out and I basically took care of himself while
he as black out drunk. He would say things like he hoped i would talk to him, just to argue just to he can talk to
me for the day. Or how he always thought about me, even with other women. This break up feels the same, except the mind games. Or what I’m assuming are kind games. How I see it,,. If someone didn’t wanna talk to me, he wouldn’t even respond.
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