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I guess I might as well provide an update with my situation. I decided that it is better that my friend and I go our separate ways for reasons I can't get into...
I guess I might as well provide an update with my situation. I decided that it is better that my friend and I go our separate ways for reasons I can't get into...
She texted me Sunday and said she wants to hangout so I finally said ok..
As we were waiting for an uber outside at the end of the night she put her head on my chest then as we said goodbye in the uber she started kissing my neck..
She mentioned while we were hanging out that she missed me and kinda hinting that she realized what she had in me these past few months in toxic relationships.. talked about how she’s gonna break up soon with this new guy and how he was just a rebound to get the bad taste out of her mouth from the drug dealer..
I’m proud of myself because I stood strong and for the first time had clarity and realized what a mess she is..
I’m not avoiding taking it to another level because I think her intentions are disingenuous I truly think she’s being honest I’m doing it because as much as I love her and think she’s a good person deep down she’s too much of a mess and would drag my life down further.
I do care for her and want her in my life as a friend and if we ever got in a relationship with the way she is I couldn’t see it ending well and we’d probably end up never taking too each other again.
She texted me Sunday and said she wants to hangout so I finally said ok..
As we were waiting for an uber outside at the end of the night she put her head on my chest then as we said goodbye in the uber she started kissing my neck..
She mentioned while we were hanging out that she missed me and kinda hinting that she realized what she had in me these past few months in toxic relationships.. talked about how she’s gonna break up soon with this new guy and how he was just a rebound to get the bad taste out of her mouth from the drug dealer..
I’m proud of myself because I stood strong and for the first time had clarity and realized what a mess she is..
I’m not avoiding taking it to another level because I think her intentions are disingenuous I truly think she’s being honest I’m doing it because as much as I love her and think she’s a good person deep down she’s too much of a mess and would drag my life down further.
I do care for her and want her in my life as a friend and if we ever got in a relationship with the way she is I couldn’t see it ending well and we’d probably end up never taking too each other again.
Glad that you are able to step back and recognize this.
I am curious though, how much has she had to drink in these moments where she is coming onto you?
Glad that you are able to step back and recognize this.
I am curious though, how much has she had to drink in these moments where she is coming onto you?
She met me at bar but it was late so we only had a few beers nothing more..it wasn’t like we were drunk...maybe buzzed at most.
She’s a borderline alcoholic so a few drinks for her is nothing lol..she drinks a lot so I guess that is the real her.
Besides my egos been bruised enough can I have a moment of thinking maybe somebodies into me instead of you pointing out she’s not attracted to me it’s only the alcohol lol.
Besides my egos been bruised enough can I have a moment of thinking maybe somebodies into me instead of you pointing out she’s not attracted to me it’s only the alcohol lol.
Ok, this has to be said, and I hope you will take it as it is intended.
This last sentence is and always will be your downfall.
The woman is a user and a mess. You were the convenient available man who could give her the attention she craves, and she took advantage of it.
It doesn't have to mean you are not attractive, in the general sense, to someone. It is not about you. You shouldn't see it as an attack on your ego. It is about HER and her problems.
Even if she is/was attracted to you, it doesn't mean that's even the point of these encounters. She uses her sexuality to get affirmation. She isn't using it to express feelings about the men she's with.
Do you see the difference?
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