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Old 12-16-2018, 12:21 PM
 
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I was in a hurry last night so I didn’t write everything. So he said they did sext and exchange pictures and he said he wants to meet her as just a friend at a cafe or more at a hotel room. And she said you’re willing to cheat on your gf!? And he said it’s not cheating if it’s just a desire and that he’s happy with me and can see us getting married one day.

Also that he said he had hope for what could be between them and wished he could give her what she needs, sexually and he hopes more than sexually.

He’s just weird. He said he’s happy with me and can see us getting married but willing to sleep with her cause she gets him sexually. And she asked him if he thinks I’m the one and he said “hopefully.”

Can anyone make any sense of this? I don’t. I’m beyond disgusted. My head hurts.
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Old 12-16-2018, 12:24 PM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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If you're cool with having an open relationship....go for it. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's already cheated on you.

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Old 12-16-2018, 12:58 PM
 
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If you're cool having an open relationship....go for it. He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He's already cheated on you.
Oh no I don’t. It’s over! I just want to share how gross and insane he is.
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Old 12-17-2018, 08:36 AM
 
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Can anyone make any sense of this? I don’t. I’m beyond disgusted. My head hurts.
He is a *i*k. There, it makes sense now.

You will be going through the gamut of emotions over the next few months. It will be hard. The good that came out of it is now you see you can trust your gut and that sometimes people are jerks. Every person in your life is a lesson or a blessing. He was a lesson.
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Old 12-17-2018, 08:58 AM
 
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He is a *i*k. There, it makes sense now.

You will be going through the gamut of emotions over the next few months. It will be hard. The good that came out of it is now you see you can trust your gut and that sometimes people are jerks. Every person in your life is a lesson or a blessing. He was a lesson.
So right! I’m still in a weird phase like wtf did just happen!??? I honestly think he’s severely damaged or incapable of love or something. That behavior isn’t normal.
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Old 09-27-2019, 02:45 PM
 
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So he’s still texting her.. explicitly.
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Old 09-27-2019, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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So he’s still texting her.. explicitly.
... and you're still there?
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Old 09-27-2019, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Moreno Valley, Ca
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So he’s still texting her.. explicitly.
I thought it was over and you moved out? What did I miss??
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Old 09-27-2019, 04:21 PM
 
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We broke up for a few weeks then we got back together. I know, I’m an idiot who deserves this.
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Old 09-27-2019, 04:39 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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We broke up for a few weeks then we got back together. I know, I’m an idiot who deserves this.
Obviously that’s what you think because no one who had any love for themselves would stay around.
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