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My wife told to one of his assistents how to better do. And he and his assistent told that this was not my wifes business to do, which made my wife very sad. (My wife have understanding and work in the same area as this coworker).
It's hard to know if your wife was within her rights to advise the assistant or if she was interfering.
Either way, your loyalty is supposed to be with your wife, so you may need to stop riding with this guy if you want peace in your home. But honestly it sounds like your wife is being petty and immature. Is she unable to work out conflicts with people she disagrees with?
IF she works in the same area as this colleague, why does she not carpool with you two also?
My wife told to one of his assistents how to better do. And he and his assistent told that this was not my wifes business to do, which made my wife very sad. (My wife have understanding and work in the same area as this coworker).
Well, just from what you have written, it does seem that your wife was out of line. While her intentions were good, it is generally considered inappropriate to offer unsolicited advice.
It's hard to know if your wife was within her rights to advise the assistant or if she was interfering.
Either way, your loyalty is supposed to be with your wife, so you may need to stop riding with this guy if you want peace in your home. But honestly it sounds like your wife is being petty and immature. Is she unable to work out conflicts with people she disagrees with?
IF she works in the same area as this colleague, why does she not carpool with you two also?
DO you live in the US?
Thank You for Your reply. My wife work in the same area, but not in the same company. We live in Europe, and are from different countries. That might be the difference in understanding and thinking. I ask, to find answers, to get more understanding. I am aware that it might be that it is I who are wrong. But, in my thinking it is like this: one challenge do not involve the other. For me it seems more like a childish way, that I am expected to act as a instrument for my wife to get "revenge". But - maybe it is I who are wrong... even if I think not....
It's my opinion only but I don't think your wife is right in asking you to give up shared ridership....or even friendship....with somebody she doesn't like unless she also rides with the two of you?
Even then, she ought to grow up if it's a money saver or unless it means like an hour or so every day
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