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Old 11-30-2018, 03:01 PM
 
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My college from work lives next to us, and drive together to or from work when it suits because this person from work do not have a car. My wife see some of the actions from this college as disrespectful to she. I am not involved in this. It is not a jealousy or sexual challenge which threaten our relationship. My wife have told that she do not want that this college drive with me, to and from work, because of this.

How would You react or reply to this ?
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:03 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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"Colleague". The word is "colleague". A college is an institution of higher learning, not a person.

My reply is: what did your coworker do, that your wife disapproved of? And what culture are you all from? More information needed.
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:04 PM
 
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Since you committed to your wife, she comes first

No more carpooling with her.

You'll need to let her know she needs to get her own ride to the College

You're welcome
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:05 PM
 
Location: Texas
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That's a lot of people for one car.
Disaster on the suspension.
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:06 PM
 
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Sorry for my english. It was in general a quarrel and disagreement between my colleague and my wife which NOT involved me.
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:07 PM
 
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old saying: happy wife happy life.
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:07 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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What actions of this colleague does your wife consider disrespectful, and what does that have to do with giving this person a ride to work? Even if your wife doesn't like this person, you still work with them and have to have a civil relationship.
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:09 PM
 
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Since you committed to your wife, she comes first

No more carpooling with her.

You'll need to let her know she needs to get her own ride to the College

You're welcome

My colleague is a man.
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:25 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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My colleague is a man.
What did he do that your wife saw as disrespectful?
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Old 11-30-2018, 03:36 PM
 
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What did he do that your wife saw as disrespectful?
My wife told to one of his assistents how to better do. And he and his assistent told that this was not my wifes business to do, which made my wife very sad. (My wife have understanding and work in the same area as this coworker).
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