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Old 12-02-2018, 08:57 AM
 
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I would NOT stop and try to pick someone up because they smiled at me while walking by!

That's NOT a subtle clue or a hint! It's being pleasant to someone walking by!

And a jacket? The hell? Lol.
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Old 12-02-2018, 08:59 AM
 
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Note to self: Buy new jacket.

Seriously, if you have attractive women smiling at you then smile back and think of something you could say to them. Their smiles are indicating they like what they see and want more...duh! Or is this a thread to brag or to get DMs from the ladies on CD?
No.

Lawd now I'm going to have stop smiling at people in public if that's what people think. Ugh.
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Old 12-02-2018, 09:05 AM
 
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The smell your pheromones and want you badly
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Old 12-02-2018, 09:20 AM
 
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No.

Lawd now I'm going to have stop smiling at people in public if that's what people think. Ugh.

Evidently from the responses I've gotten you're the only one who thinks that.
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Old 12-02-2018, 11:26 AM
 
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Evidently from the responses I've gotten you're the only one who thinks that.
Ya well the others are mostly men so good luck w that.
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Old 12-02-2018, 02:39 PM
 
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Ya well the others are mostly men so good luck w that.

So, are women largely unapproachable? I don't get it. Why send a signal that's going to get his attention if you don't want any of that attention returned? I am quite confused here......
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Old 12-02-2018, 02:56 PM
 
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So, are women largely unapproachable? I don't get it. Why send a signal that's going to get his attention if you don't want any of that attention returned? I am quite confused here......
Exactly.

Most turn their head or look down when I’m coming in their direction so I know there is no interest.
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Old 12-02-2018, 02:57 PM
 
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No.

Lawd now I'm going to have stop smiling at people in public if that's what people think. Ugh.
Mmhmm.
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Old 12-02-2018, 03:13 PM
 
Location: CasaMo
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They're laughing at the toilet paper trail hanging out the back of your jeans.
OP has made strides in self improvement and he's looking to further it. What have you done in that regard lately? Anything?

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So, are women largely unapproachable? I don't get it.
Trust your gut. Pay attention to body language and other nonverbal things before and after.

Good for you for getting into better shape and getting decent clothes.
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Old 12-02-2018, 04:34 PM
 
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If you have been working out and getting in shape then they are noticing and they like it. Its amazing how that makes a difference. Yes you should approach them.
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